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First Date, First boyfriend, Marriage
19/F
I've always been very picky about who I would want to date and wanted to make sure it was someone I could really have a real relationship with. I never wanted to date just to date and I never dated anyone until January last year. My boyfriend was the first guy I went on a date with, my first kiss, and various other firsts. We've been together a year now and are absolutely perfect for each other. We're already thinking and planning our future life together and I already know that when the time comes for him to pop the question I will say yes.
I'm not asking for advice really but more of a Poll of sorts. How common is it for someone to marry their first boyfriends? Am I just really lucky that I found the right guy on the first try? Also just out of curiosity how many of you think I'm nuts for marrying my first boyfriend? :P
Anyone's thoughts are great. I was just pondering this and thought I'd ask.
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I'm also not sure as to how many people marry their first boyfriends, and although its good to have past experiences to learn from, marriage is about both of you having the commitment and drive to make it work because you love eachother that much. nothing else matters as long as you both are sure that even though there will be ups and downs, you will work together and make your relationship work through ups and downs. i work at a nursing home and ive met plenty of people in their 80s and 90s who have been with their spouse for like 65 years and they were their first loves. Your life together depends on how much you put into your relationship. I wish the best of luck to you, and do not think you're crazy. Just make sure before you do that you absolutely know that he is the one you want to wake up next to every morning, the one that will take care of you no matter what, that will wipe your tears when your sad, that will understand when you need your time alone, and that he's as committed as you are. With not having any experience dating I would say that your biggest concern would be in a few years or maybe 10 that you will be curious about what its like to be with someone else..because he's the only one you've ever been with. Hope this helps./
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I dont know how common it is, but i think its cute! your lucky to have found someone on the first try. many people never even find their perfect someone. so you are blessed and lucky.
i think its cute and i hope every thing stays perfect for you!
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