So there is this guy at school that i have liked for a long while. We used to talk a little, just say hi and little questions here and there. He is pretty shy. He told me he liked me two weeks ago, so i decided that it would be okay for me to just tell him that i liked him too. I feel like he is too shy though because when we see each other all he will do is smile and give me a hug. I'm the one who tries to make conversations so things aren't so awkward. He won't call me for some odd reason. He will text me, and he doesn't say much.When he does want to hang out, he wants me to go over to his house, and he won't offer to find a way to come get me, or at least meet half way. This pisses me off because i don't chase guys. His friend and I have been tight for a really long while so we are really good buddies. He just told me last week that he liked me and all this other stuff about how he wants to go out with me. Since the guy #1 doesn't really seem to like me, wants me to chase him, i'm getting really sick and tired of it. I was wondering if you guys think it would be weird if I just ignored him from now on. And maybe go on a few dates with the guy that asked me out so i could maybe make him jealous?.....i hope this wasn't confusing...tell me what you guys think i should do? I still like the first guy, but i'm getting really irritated by his behavior...i don't know wether or not to look at it as shy, or if he is acting like he likes me.
Additional info, added Sunday January 17 2010, 5:15 pm: i'm sixteen by the way . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sunshine1232 answered Monday January 18 2010, 8:04 pm: I think you should look at it as he's being shy seeing as the way his behavior is ignoring him would
be mean and trying to make him jealous would also be you can't really expect someone to be entertaining through text messages seeing as your talking by a phone i'd give him another chance maybe his behavior and the way he acts will change
if you notice it doesn't then i'd move onto the other guy you like i wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly he could be waiting for you to make the first move and to see if you will(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
Bronx7 answered Monday January 18 2010, 1:31 pm: You should go on the date and see other people.He cant expect you to wait around for him forever.Plus if you know the 1st guy really likes you then his going to approach you for the fact that your seeing other people.But eather way you win ur going out wit sum1 you like and if the 1st guy decides he acutally wants you n shows you then you can go out wit him instead [ Bronx7's advice column | Ask Bronx7 A Question ]
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