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hes being an ass and trying to ruin me :/
Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 10:59 pm
my boyfriend and i are doin very bad latley yet weve ben going out for a year and a half this month.. if we ever do text hes fighting with me and we havent hungout in two weeks he so easily blows me off. but friday were going out to eat for our bdays, saturday is his birthday, sunday is his superbowl party, our dance is the 13th and my birthday is the 14th. he even said no presents. my friends took me out nearly everyday the last two weeks and this weekend i didnt come home and went to a few clean parties i skipped raves, not to fuel the fire. they say hes being an ass whole plus he wont give a reason. they say forget him even ignore his birthday. what do i do. could he be trying to make me breakup with him? should i stay with him for our b...
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Need ideas!
Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 4:26 pm
Me and my boyfriend have only been together for like a month,and obviously valentines day is only 2 weeks away and I want to do something cute! My boyfriend is kinda the shy type..he always makes me make all the decisions and I do most of the talking and plus i drive and he doesn't because he waited a long time before he got his driving permit so he doesn't have his license yet. I don't know how i should approach what we should do on valentines day to him..or if he will come up with something! I've always wanted a guy to come up with a cute idea for valentines day but since I drive i feel as though I'm the one who has to pick something and i have no ideas! What should I say? Should i just not say anything and see if he comes up with an idea himself?
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my boyfriend disapeared
Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 3:27 pm
k well my boy friend has been very distant with me and it was really hurting me.i talked to him about it and it would only get us into arguements.
about 5days ago i just had enough and told him we should go on a break and the thing now is that hes disapeared.he wont answer my calls he wont txt me back hes blocked me on msn.he hasnt even told me its over..he just ran off without a word.this whole time i thought we were on a break to see what he wanted.
anyway its obvious he doesngt want me.its just that i feel like iv been used.itd be easier if he actually used his words and dumped me instead of disapearing without a sound.
i just wanted to see what you all thought and see if anyone had some tips on getting over him sinc...
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ignoring
Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 2:37 pm
okay well im dating this guy, we are a couple hours distance and only see each other on the weekends usually. Well lately he has been blowing me off. He told me no sometime last month because he was goin to see his friends indtead so i was like okay. I offered to pick him up that week and take him here to a few days and he was like no the weather is bad I got upset but got over it. Then the next weekend i was able to use my grandmas car again, but she wouldnt have known about it. I offered to pick him up once again and he told me no the weather is bad. I flipped out and started screamin and crying and we almost broke up. I overeacted i admit. But it had been three weeks since i had seen him at all. Well that next weekend my sister got ahold...
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awkward
Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 2:06 pm
Okay so me and my boyfriend have only been dating for like a month or so.We just started doing sexual things..not much.I just gave him a handjob and i don't plan to go any further until next month.The only thing that I noticed is he doesn't shave !!!! I shave completely and i never have any hair down there and i don't mind that he has some hair,but he has ALOT and I don't know how to tell him to get rid of it without being awkward.it doesnt bother me that much,but i still find it sort of unappealing.He hasn't had a girlfriend before me in like 4 months,so he hasn't done anything since but you'd think he'd shave now that he has me! I was thinking about waiting a while when we are more comfortable but i don't know how to say it! help!
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what do ya guys thinkk
Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 1:14 pm
okay so i dated a guy for a year, we broke up cause we lost the 'connection', then we started hanging out, got back together, then broke up cause we lost the 'connection' again. (he ended it both times)
i kinda like being single but i miss him a ton. he tells me he thinks about me more than he should. i didn't say anything like i miss him or anything, i'm kinda jsut playing it cool and being friends for now. i want to like be something like a kind of friends with benefits kinda deal though...i know some people think its stupid but since college is coming i wanna try and be single but if we hang out or something i just want to like jump on him and cuddle. do guys like the whole friends w benefits thing? and like, how should i bring it up? thanks you guyss
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I hate my wife's friend
Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 1:07 pm
I hate one of my wife's best friend. We just went out with the couple and I had a terrible time. My wife and I ended up having a huge fight over this. Any ideas on what I can do?
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Myspace messages
Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 12:30 am
Hi. I'm 18 and my bf is 19 and we've been dating for 10 months. Here's the story... =\
So the other day I was at my bfs house and he was on his Myspace and I looked at it and saw that he was talking to this girl (which bugged me because they use to like eachother and they've kissed even ugh) and I said "what the heck?? Why are you talking to her??" and he was like "oh um because she got her drivers permit." so I say "oh really? Cool... Let me read the comments :)" and he deletes them ALL right after me saying that. So I'm like "uhhhh why did you delete the comments??" and he said "idk." and do I'm thinking awesome. Whatever. Ugh. Then today I started thinking about it again so just no...
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how to get my ex back
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 11:46 pm
hi ok well i was dating a guy for a long while then got pregnant we had the baby and were together he never really helped out so i would nag at him to help well when my daughter turned 10 months old he broke up with me and wants her on weekends and I don't want to do any of that I love him so much we were together for 2 1/2 years and I believe he loved me well we have been broken up for a week and a half and he texted me last night and we texted for like 5 hours but only as friends what can i say or do to get him back I really do love him we are both 18
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Long distance relationship
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 11:13 pm
I am in a long distance relationship, with this guy I really love, he is coming to see me soon, he wants to have sex, he is really big and I am a virgin :/ is it going to hurt alot? If so how do I prevent this?
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Was i bein too rude?
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 10:12 pm
My name is christina. I'm seventeen. so this guy and i liked each other...he is known to be a trouble maker.he is just bad. He acts pretty much shy when it comes to girls. We have liked each other for a while now. We go to the same school. He was acting way too shy to me, all he would ever do really is smile and hug. I was the one doing all the talking so i decided to back off and not talk to him for a while. This bugged him and he ended up constantly calling and bugging to see if i still liked him. I ended up telling him yeah after a whole week of ignoring. He has become really close to my best guy friend. I asked my best guy friend what he thinks about him and i, and he said he thinks that he is just after one thing. It really hut me beca...
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Valentines day/sadies dance
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 10:05 pm
My schools Sadie dance is February 13 but I play hockey and we have a tournament that weekend :( my parent said I could still go to the dance though :) but I won't find out what time we play (morning or afternoon shift) until next week. I'm
going to ask my boyfriend to the dance but I need a clever/corny way of asking him. I was thinking about taking glow in the dark stars and spelling it out on his car at night?
Also I want to do something nice and romantic for him. We are both 17. Please nothing vulgar and sexual. I'm looking for cute/corny/lovey dovey ideas :) thank you!!'
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How do you tell a borderline guy "it's over"?
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 10:00 pm
22/f. He's 24.
Okay. So, this is gonna sound bad, but...I have a psychiatrist colleague and a diagnostic manual at my disposal. I figured out that my (ex...?)boyfriend has Personality Disorder with Borderline and Narcissistic traits. I'm not just saying this because we've had problems. He actually fits ALL of the Narcissistic criteria, and most of the Borderline.
Basically, that means he's very self-centered and extremely unstable. This is not why I'm breaking up with him. It just isn't working anymore. I'm sure those contribute to it, but yeah.
Anyway. My problem is, after working VERY HARD to convince myself to end the relationship, I did. But when I did that, he bombarded me with both nasty and pleading e-mails and...
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freeze up when i'm alone with him
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 9:51 pm
i'd say i'm an outgoing girl .. i don't really care what people think about me because i'm confident in myself. the only time i freeze up is when i'm alone with the guy i like, his name is nick. we've actually known each other for like 4 years .. so we know alot about each other and if we're all hanging out with a group of people, i'll be fine but for example .. me nick and a couple of friends went to a hockey game. nick drove and i sat in the front seat. it was kind of awkward .. i didnt really know what to say so i would like turn around and talk to the people in the back. i just dont know what to say when we're alone .. and its happened before. me and him were driving and it was just us two and it was just silence and ocassionally i'd be...
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Getting a stiffy when making out with a cute gal
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 8:51 pm
So like everytime I be making out with this girl or we be flirting dirty and what not I have to stop and hold back becuase I get a stiffy and it happens in public sometimes. Anyone got an idea on how I can still be making out and not chub up?
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i cant believe im asking this
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 7:31 pm
i was previously on the birth control shot that lasts for three months. i fist took it in april or early may of last year i believe. The shot stops your period and is supposed to last for 3 months. However, I havent gotten my period since. Its been well over three months and I actually was not very sexually active during this time. Actually I wasnt at all. Recently though I started again and decided I would go to the doctor to see what is up with my body, I just havent had the chance to just yet. The problem is I had sex very often during the past week and of course I used a condom and everything but you never know with these things. Nothing was weird except I was really sore because I went from barely having sex to doing it quite often. To...
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Guy acting an ass.
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 6:06 pm
Basically, there's a guy I'm friends with, and we like each other.
We tell each other that all the time, we always talk, hang out and have a laugh etc.
This has been going on for like three years now, and nothing has happened for many reasons (please don't get into that, that's for a different question haha)but we still are really good friends, and know we like each other etc, like I said.
The problem is, sometimes he's a complete immature ass, actually not even sometimes, more often than not. I just deal with it, I mean guys will be guys etc, but it's gotten too much lately, and he's started to tease my friends and stuff, which really isn't on, so I'm thinking just forget about it completely, he's not worth any troubl...
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Just talking to her is nerve racking and awkward.
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 5:34 pm
Ill keep this real short, i havent had a propper GF in 7 years. at least not one that stayed with me for over a month. Iv allways been a bit of loner just because i like the solitude. but a few months ago i went out with this one girl... she was amazing, everything i looked for. but she moved away. we went out for a month and a bit i guess.
its been about 4 months since iv seen her let alone talked to her and now im finnaly forgetting my feelings for her (its for the best she found some one new anyway) iv finnaly found some one else too. but its the same problem
im so shy its un real... i can talk to her for a bit then an awkward silence. or i say somthing silly and feeling really stupid about it for a while or a few d...
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guilty concience
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 8:46 am
Okay I currently have a boyfriend. Juts to make that clear. Last night I hung out wit one of my guy friends josh till like really late, n I ended up passign out on his bed and I woke up wrapped in my own blanket up wit him passed out 2.he woke up and grabbed some of the covers and right then his sister walked in. His sister goes to my school and everyone in the house assumes that we did something but nothing happened at all, I just fell asleep. I feel really guilty that I stayed the night considering I do have a boyfriend and I know he would be pissed if he found out. Did I do something wrong and should I feel guilty. It was like 4 in the morning when I passed out and I left at 8. I know I should have left but since nothing happened and we ...
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Asking a guy to a Sadies dance using a scavenger hunt?
Posted Friday January 29 2010, 9:25 pm
I want to ask a guy to the Sadie Hawkins dance, and I want to ask by leaving like you know a trail of clues he has to follow to find out that I want to ask him. Can you give me some ides for fun places to hide things with some good hints about the places things are hidden?
I am romantic but not very creative. ;)
Thank you!
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