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Was i bein too rude?


Question Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 10:12 pm

My name is christina. I'm seventeen. so this guy and i liked each other...he is known to be a trouble maker.he is just bad. He acts pretty much shy when it comes to girls. We have liked each other for a while now. We go to the same school. He was acting way too shy to me, all he would ever do really is smile and hug. I was the one doing all the talking so i decided to back off and not talk to him for a while. This bugged him and he ended up constantly calling and bugging to see if i still liked him. I ended up telling him yeah after a whole week of ignoring. He has become really close to my best guy friend. I asked my best guy friend what he thinks about him and i, and he said he thinks that he is just after one thing. It really hut me because somewhat deep down i knew that it was true. Everytime we talked he always seemed to talk nasty, and he had such a curiousity of wether or not i was a virgin. He had also said that he had heard that i like to mess with guys' minds. And i denied it. I do talk to some guys, but they are just friends. After realizing that this guy was after only one thing, i decided that it was payback time. so i told him that i have to come clean with him because i don't want to keep making him think something that is not true....i do mess with people's minds. He then told me that he felt the same way that i did. Later on my best guy friend called me, they were both at a party, and i heard the guy i like in the background saying....F#@** you Christina...twice....i was mad so i told my best guy friend to put him on the phone. I asked him why he was talking shiz about me...and he was denying it saying he was talking to some other girl...i told him that if he wanted to say any kind of shiz to me he should just say it to my face....and he said he had heard i was talking smack on him.....this is pretty much the story But i want to know what you guys think....i know i was being rude, but i had to

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sunshine1232 answered Sunday January 31 2010, 8:38 pm:
I don't think you were being rude if you ask me he got what he deserved it was coming to him karma what comes around goes around there was no need for him to say what he did about you in the background it's even worst that he denied what he said and lied you have every right to be mad you shouldn't be feeling gulity like you did something wrong seeing as you had to be rude to defend yourself since he was saying things about you(:

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