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Guy acting an ass.
Basically, there's a guy I'm friends with, and we like each other.
We tell each other that all the time, we always talk, hang out and have a laugh etc.
This has been going on for like three years now, and nothing has happened for many reasons (please don't get into that, that's for a different question haha)but we still are really good friends, and know we like each other etc, like I said.
The problem is, sometimes he's a complete immature ass, actually not even sometimes, more often than not. I just deal with it, I mean guys will be guys etc, but it's gotten too much lately, and he's started to tease my friends and stuff, which really isn't on, so I'm thinking just forget about it completely, he's not worth any trouble.
It'll be hard after so long, but at the end of the day a guy that disses your friends isn't worth your time.
What are your opinions on this, am I overreacting, or is it a fair decision?
Thanks
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I don't think you are over reacting, but I do think if you really like somebody, the deserve a few warning shots fired before the out-right dumping.
It is normal for people to go through phases where they are espcailly agressive or belittling to others in their teens. It's also normal for these people's friends to say "Okay, not funny anymore. Stop being an asshole."
In your position, I'd give him the chance to turn it around. A straight up conversation of "Remember when you said that and that, I don't think it's cool. I like you a lot less when you diss my friends."
If it's just a phase, he'll probably back down and realize he took normal teasing and gossiping too far. If he is simply an asshole, you'll have your answer, and his asshole-response will probably make getting over him an easier task.
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