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Just talking to her is nerve racking and awkward.
Ill keep this real short, i havent had a propper GF in 7 years. at least not one that stayed with me for over a month. Iv allways been a bit of loner just because i like the solitude. but a few months ago i went out with this one girl... she was amazing, everything i looked for. but she moved away. we went out for a month and a bit i guess.
its been about 4 months since iv seen her let alone talked to her and now im finnaly forgetting my feelings for her (its for the best she found some one new anyway) iv finnaly found some one else too. but its the same problem
im so shy its un real... i can talk to her for a bit then an awkward silence. or i say somthing silly and feeling really stupid about it for a while or a few days.
I dont wanna feel awkward i just dont have thee confidence. luckily she seem's patient and avid to see me so its nice cause i wanna see her too. were going in to town tommorow. im sure there will be a few wierd silences, how do i get around them?
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Playing up your shy and sensitive side can work in your favor. This girl seems to like you already, just let her know that you really like her and you're sorry but you're a bit shy and you would like to get to know her better if given the chance. Who knows? It might take some pressure off of her too? Sometimes girls feel awkward and insecure too (especially on a first date). Maybe it will relax the whole deal? Just try to take it easy and know that girls love a shy, sweet and sensitive guy! Play it up! I bet she'll think it's cute! Much better than a man that's out of control! Things will relax and then you guys will be hitting it off in no time I bet. Hope this helps! Todd the Gem Guy
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to be honest with you, you can turn this quiet awkward silences into something!
One of the cutest things to girls is honesty and shyness. next time you are with her and an awkward silence comes up, just say, "you know, Im sorry that there are awkward silences sometimes. Im just shy and sometimes dont always know what to say around beautiful girls." make sure to smile alot! It may seem cheesy but the girl will appreciate the compliment, and instead of thinking your a creep, you will look like the shy sensitive type.
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