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freeze up when i'm alone with him
i'd say i'm an outgoing girl .. i don't really care what people think about me because i'm confident in myself. the only time i freeze up is when i'm alone with the guy i like, his name is nick. we've actually known each other for like 4 years .. so we know alot about each other and if we're all hanging out with a group of people, i'll be fine but for example .. me nick and a couple of friends went to a hockey game. nick drove and i sat in the front seat. it was kind of awkward .. i didnt really know what to say so i would like turn around and talk to the people in the back. i just dont know what to say when we're alone .. and its happened before. me and him were driving and it was just us two and it was just silence and ocassionally i'd be like oh i love this song!! why do i do this?? i really dont know what to talk about, i basically know everything about him and youd think id be comfortable alone with him but i'm not because i have the biggest crush on him and so i feel like everything i say is dumb.
how can i fix this?? :(
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You're probably just shy.
First, find something to talk about, think before you speak. Asking a question is always a great way to do that.. it gets a conversation going. Maybe...ask about something in school, or in a sport, or anything like that.
Obviously you're not very comfortable being alone with him, even though you have known him for four years?? Well try doing something fun like bowling, or rollar skating, ice skating, or just hanging out somewhere...
Good Luck!
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