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okay well im dating this guy, we are a couple hours distance and only see each other on the weekends usually. Well lately he has been blowing me off. He told me no sometime last month because he was goin to see his friends indtead so i was like okay. I offered to pick him up that week and take him here to a few days and he was like no the weather is bad I got upset but got over it. Then the next weekend i was able to use my grandmas car again, but she wouldnt have known about it. I offered to pick him up once again and he told me no the weather is bad. I flipped out and started screamin and crying and we almost broke up. I overeacted i admit. But it had been three weeks since i had seen him at all. Well that next weekend my sister got ahold of a car for me and i saw him. I went to see him and i found on his phone text messages from his ex that were to friendly. I had recenlty got pissed at him before that because he was talking to her when i toldh im not to. He just told me to get over it. I just told him that i dont trust them two together because of there past and I had found myspace messages where she had mssaged him sayin they needed to get together and "get it on" I had perfect reasoning to want him to stay away from her. so I got pissed about the text messages of course. I didnt snap or anything i just called him a lier and told him to get off of me because he had wrestled me down to get his phone. Well I left and ever since then he has been a complete ass. He tells me im a wife and says that he intentionally ignores me. Well its been about a month since ive seen him. Next weekend will be a month. I was supposed to go see him not this weekend but the last but he said he was wanting to go see his friends and i was like okay thats fine but i told him to stay away from his ex, thats the only reason i was uptight about it and hes like alright and called me a wife. Well it turned out he couldnt go that weekend and didnt tell me till that sunday. He said he would leave tuesday and be back friday so we made plans to see each other this weekend. Well teusday comes around and he cant go then. So i tell him okay when i come see you this weekend ill take you over there sunday and you can spend the whole week there. He didnt reply. THursday i call him and hes like your gonna be pissed and im like why. HEs like im goin to south bend(his friends) this weekend. I did get pissed. I didnt yell at him but i was bitchin, i told him tha he nver takesme into consideration and that its all about him and that i told him id take him there sunday and he could have all week there. He was like well they have been waitin to see me its "mandatory" I cried a little because thats what happens when i get mad. HE called me a wife again. WEll i have barely eard anythng from him since he's been there and he usally tried to ignore me some. So i called him again friday morning and i asked him i was like you wanna be with me right? He was like yea, i said then what is it i do wrong, why dont you ever talk to me, what is it i need to fix. He was like nothing your fine. I was like obviously not if you dont talk to me. HEwas like like nothing your perfect. SO i dont know. Do you think im overreacting about seeing him? and do you think i overreacted about his ex gurl?
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Why are you even with him? Dump his sorry ass asap. He really seems like he couldn't give a crap.
What's the point in being with someone that makes you upset?
You seem like a nice girl who knows where your priorities lay, so ditch the loser and find someone who will treat you with respect and actually love you back.
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This guy is trying to tell you every which way except straight out that he doesn't want to be involved with you anymore. He's a chicken and a jerk for not having the balls to be honest with you, but it looks like you'll have to be the bigger person here. You need to let him go. Just really think about it... if he missed you as much as you miss him wouldn't he do anything to make time to see you? I'm afraid the harsh reality is he doesn't want to be your boyfriend anymore. Let this one go and concentrate on yourself for a while. When you're not looking you're going to come across an amazing guy who loves you can't wait to spend every minute with you!
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No you are not over reactting about his ex. more and likely he is seeing someone else and keeping you talking to him so if that does not work out he has you as a rebound. My older brother dated a girl in Cali. when he was living there. he lived a few hours away from her and shes blow him off all the time. (this was his ex and he was trying to work things out wit her) she had been cheating on him the whole time while he was trying to work things out. Hun you can do so much better than a guy who ignores you all the time. There are more than enough guys out there that will want to spend time with you .
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