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Okay so me and my boyfriend have only been dating for like a month or so.We just started doing sexual things..not much.I just gave him a handjob and i don't plan to go any further until next month.The only thing that I noticed is he doesn't shave !!!! I shave completely and i never have any hair down there and i don't mind that he has some hair,but he has ALOT and I don't know how to tell him to get rid of it without being awkward.it doesnt bother me that much,but i still find it sort of unappealing.He hasn't had a girlfriend before me in like 4 months,so he hasn't done anything since but you'd think he'd shave now that he has me! I was thinking about waiting a while when we are more comfortable but i don't know how to say it! help!
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Well, they say the key to a great relationship is communication :P. So I'd definitely ask him whether or not he prefers to have hair down there on his body or not. If he says he doesn't mind either way, tell him how you feel. The worst part about this situation is it's ultimately his choice, but since you're his girlfriend, I'm sure he'd shave or at least trim if he knew it's what you wanted. Your conversation could start by you asking if he prefers a girl shaved or unshaven, which would possibly lead to him asking the same question about your opinion of guys (typical response). Then just let him know you'd prefer less hair.
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He may not want to shave or trim. My husband does not and I dont think I every dated a guy who did.
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