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Myspace messages
Hi. I'm 18 and my bf is 19 and we've been dating for 10 months. Here's the story... =\
So the other day I was at my bfs house and he was on his Myspace and I looked at it and saw that he was talking to this girl (which bugged me because they use to like eachother and they've kissed even ugh) and I said "what the heck?? Why are you talking to her??" and he was like "oh um because she got her drivers permit." so I say "oh really? Cool... Let me read the comments :)" and he deletes them ALL right after me saying that. So I'm like "uhhhh why did you delete the comments??" and he said "idk." and do I'm thinking awesome. Whatever. Ugh. Then today I started thinking about it again so just now I went on his Myspace and saw that she wrote a comment that said "everyone is good lol" so I'm like "HEY what he said would be on HER Myspace comments!!" so I go to check it out and SHE DELETED WHAT HE WROTE TO HER!!! ...except one comment from him that says "ok cool cool. So how is everyone." so, obviously they had a conversation before that that he was responding too.
What?!!
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First off, if a guy goes and deletes comments he has written and then asks the girl he wrote them to to delete the ones he wrote her, there's something going on. This happened to me before; I was at my boyfriend's house and while I was asleep he was messaging this girl (who he then cheated on me with). When I got up all of a sudden he Xed out of the instant messaging screen and said "Oh that was someone I didn't want to talk to right now."
If I were you, get out now before he has the chance to really hurt you. Demand to know what was going on because that is very shady. As much as I want to say, "Oh it was probably nothing, don't worry" I really believe that the situation is shady and you deserve to know. If your boyfriend has feelings for another girl, I doubt you'd want to be with him anyway. Do what you believe is right, but do NOT let him off the hook. Sometimes with guys like that, he'll lie and say stuff but I can't really tell you what to and not to believe. I'm sorry if this seems mean-ish, I just hate guys who are pathological liars. There's no reason for him to even be IMing some other girl while you're over anyway.
Good luck girl <3
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