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What a mess of my relationship
Posted Wednesday February 3 2010, 12:46 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating 3 years, and I am now being home schooled, He goesd to the same church and all but how can I se him more, I really love him and cant stop tihnking about him, any ideas please help
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i just want to be friends.she wants more...
Posted Wednesday February 3 2010, 10:17 am
hi all
so im 17/m and recently became friends with this girl whos 15.now i know from other friends of both of us that she really really likes me .we've been talking,mostly through the cellphone and she kinda hints to me that she likes me at times.well the problem is that ,even though she is cute and a really nice friend,i don't really like her and do not want to start a more serious relationship with her.now i need to like let her know that im not that into her but at the same time i don't want to jepordise our friendship.so any advice:)?
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How to impress
Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 9:16 pm
17/f
So this guy asked me to the valentines day dance and it's next sat! I'm not gonna lie I really really want to impress him because I'm starting to really like him. We both like eachother but I'm pretty sure I like him more than he does me. He also likes one of my friends and his best girl that's a friend. They talked bout it a while back and don't want a relationship with eachother until way future if ever because they love their friendship. She's told me he likes me and he already knows I like him. He could have asked her to the dance but asked me instead! Also he very artistic and drew me a picture which I love and in his french class made me a card along with making her one but they're just friends and I know this for sure. It...
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Oh No Valentine's Day
Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 7:37 pm
So I got back with my ex (23/M) and its been almost a month we've been together. According to him, he's going all out on Valentine's Day.
I don't have a clue what to get this guy!
He likes the Bruins (but everything is expensive and he has a lot of stuff)
We tend to joke around a lot with each other so funny jokes and humor are good!
I don't know what to do...its driving me CRAZY!
Any suggestions?
Sincerely,
InSanE
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is it just me?
Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 11:39 am
theres this guy who ive known for almost a year now, id say ive liked him for about 8 months now. he always knew i liked him and he always said he liked me. he wasnt ready for a relationship. we had a fall out not long ago and after that he apoligised and said he missed me and things...and now we are dating. obviously im really happy that we are now together, but it doesnt seem right to me, i dont know why. has anyone else felt like this? he is my first serious boyfriend. ive dated other guys before but they havent really meant this much to me.
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Song
Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 8:06 am
Gimme a good R&B song thats a duet. I need it by next week. Thanks. I'll rate. xx
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I thought she loved me, she left me
Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 7:16 am
Im almost 19 years old. I started going out with my highschool sweetheart 2 and a half years ago. She left me a few days ago, saying that she needed a break from everything. Ive asked if this is forever, or if she ever wants to get back with me and she says she doesnt know.
Weve been saying how we wanted to get married once I was done with college. We both moved to a new town 2 hours away from our hometown about 4 months ago, I moved there because she wanted to move there. Neither of us have any friends here. I dropped out of college here (I plan on going somewhere else) and I havent gotten a job yet. She has a job. She is literally the only thing I have in this town, and my lease isnt up for another 8 months. We both want to...
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so idk
Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 1:59 am
okay boyfriend trouble. i've been dating this guy for about a month now and im a little confused. i can tell he has very strong feelings for me and he knows i have strong feelings for him too. but he hasn't said i love you yet.. i don't get it. i mean all my ex's had said it way earlier than a month. he's almost said it like 3 times but i have this wierd feeling telling me he's afraid to say it cause he doesn't know what my reaction will be. i know im intimidating at times but i try to soften my expression whenever im with him. what can i do to make him not scared to say it? without losing my way of spitting game and without saying it first. any advice would be grand:) thank ya.
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go out
Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 12:22 am
why do you go out with me?
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ADVICE NEEDED
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 11:24 pm
I'm a 15 year old female physically active with very soon-to-be 18 year old guys. One is a fuck buddy who raped me at age 14 but for some reason after it all happened I was too confused to leave. The other's my good friend. They're both 18 in less than a month. Is this illegal and, if so, am I putting either of them in any danger?
thanks
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need to want to break it off.
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 11:11 pm
i know i need to end the relationship. he didn't do anything wrong, we're just not as crazy about eachother as we used to be. in fact, i feel absolutely no spark from his side of this relatioship. not anymore. i just don't think he cares enough to try anymore, so i give up.
the only problem is, i'm not the dumping type. and i can't find the strength to dump him. he's not a bad guy! everytime i find a flaw with him, i just find something good to replace it. for instance: he rarely calls me anymore. plus side: when we do talk, he really listens and and understands. he sometimes forgets we made plans. plus side: when we're together, he makes me feel like nothing else matters to him except that i'm with him.
can yo...
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:/
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 10:53 pm
okay so i dated a guy for a year, we broke up cause we lost the 'connection', then we started hanging out, got back together, then broke up cause we lost the 'connection' again. (he ended it both times)
i kinda like being single but i miss him a ton. he tells me he thinks about me more than he should. i didn't say anything like i miss him or anything, i'm kinda jsut playing it cool and being friends for now. i want to like be something like a kind of friends with benefits kinda deal though...i know some people think its stupid but since college is coming i wanna try and be single but if we hang out or something i just want to like jump on him and cuddle. do guys like the whole friends w benefits thing? and like, how should i bring it up? thank youu
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self esteem
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 10:42 pm
Been married 22 years in 2 weeks.Husband served in military for 23 years became disabled while serving in military. i have never been thin probably gained 15 pounds since marrying. Have 2 grown children problem is this when we have an argument he always goes there. He says I would have thought by now you might have lost weight but all you are is fat. I dont know if he says it out of anger or really means it. All I know is it really hurts. I would love to lose weight but somewhere I lost who I really am. Can someone help me
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I would really Appreciate any positive feedback!
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 9:19 pm
Okay, So....Recently my Fiance of 5 years decided to go to full nude bar without letting me know. To start off it was brought to my attention he had to go to work saturday morning so he wouldn't be able to come into town, (He is living away due to his job relocating) so I am still in our home town, doing the long distance thing right now! He usually comes into town every weekend an recently this weekend he told me he had to work saturday morning an couldn't come into town, which i thought was wierd considering the job he did would be cancelled because of all the rain we had coming! He called me friday night an told me he was going to bed, I didn't trust that he was going to bed because why would he go to sleep at 8 at night, (We live togeth...
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texting
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 7:15 pm
So I want to text this guy, but I don't know how to start a conversation. We usually talk on Saterdays after I have tournaments, but now the seasons over and we have nothing to talk about!
How can I start a conversation without coming of as creepy.
Also, what could we talk about.
I kind of like him and I know he is interested in me but doesn't really like me. Hopefully, YET!! So anyway, what to sayyy!!
thanks@
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Is it worth it?
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 6:28 pm
So this girl that I really like decided she just wanted to be friends, after talking for like 6 months and it sucks but she still wants us to be close. I have a feeling that she is eying someone else now but the other day she told me she misses me and how close we were. This really threw me off but her statuses on a social site and stuff say can't you see I really want you. and stuff like that and I honestly doubt it's about me. I gonna do something that never seems to work but I'm gonna spill my guts to her hoping this will sway her but I don't know... We've been through so much together, I lost two best friends because of her, one of them who was trying to date her first but then I kind of stole her from him but I thought it was worth it ...
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new boyfriend i can't love?
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 6:03 pm
16/f
i went out with my ex for 2 years, i loved him ALOT. we broke up because he moved (bad relationship of him cheating) .. a year later i have a new boyfriend, on the 13th we will be together for 4 months. I know i like him but sometimes i have no desire to cuddle with him. he say's i have a wall blocked up for me to fall in love with him because im scared i'll be hurt again. i honestly dont know what it is. im very laid back
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he hates me & i cant get over him
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 3:05 pm
i was really good friends with this guy until i started to fancy him a LOT.
i knew he didnt fancy me back cause he kept talking about how he still fancies his ex.
but i just felt like i had to tell him .. so i did.
ever since then we barely talk to eachother. at the beginning we still said hello but now we just completely ignore eachother.
i dont think i can change all that .. it's just that it makes me feel really really bad.. cause i just moved here & he was one of my only friends.. & he seemed to care so much . he always invited me over when i felt homesick etc.... & now its all over.. i thought that i would get over it but i still cry a lot. and its been pretty much half a year now :S
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am i on the right track?
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 6:03 am
I have a new boyfriend and I haven't really had many boyfriends so I'm not used to this.
We met on New years and we talked everyday and hungout and stuff,and we just made it official about a week ago.We talk everyday but we don't hangout every day (besides school because we always see eachother at school and i pick him up and drop him off from school) but he hasnt come to my house yet and hasn't met my mom or my sister .I've been to his house a few times,but his parents were sleeping so I haven't met them yet either..i just met him brother.We definately haven't done much sexual stuff,just a handjob. I'm just wondering if this is normal.My best friend and her boyfriend hangout like everyday ,almost alll day ,but they've been together ...
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Asexuality
Posted Monday February 1 2010, 1:22 am
About a week ago my boyfriend and I were talking, and he decided to drop a bomb shell on me. "I'm asexual! There are you happy now!?" All because I asked him why he'd never had any major crushes. I was absolutely not expecting that, but in a weird way, I didn't mind at all. I asked him a few questions and he explained to me that yeah the female body doesn't turn him on but the sensations of sex are fine. But every time I try and get him to listen to me and tell him I actually don't mind at all, he shuts me out. How can I get him to actually listen to me on this subject?
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