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ADVICE NEEDED
I'm a 15 year old female physically active with very soon-to-be 18 year old guys. One is a fuck buddy who raped me at age 14 but for some reason after it all happened I was too confused to leave. The other's my good friend. They're both 18 in less than a month. Is this illegal and, if so, am I putting either of them in any danger?
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Actually, either way it is illegal - if you get caught, you'll get in trouble. But if they are eighteen and you are still active - it is seen as rape (whether you say yes or no) in the court's eyes, and they will get into a lot of trouble.
Also, do you really want to stay with a guy who has raped you? You don't neccissarily have to report it, but I think it would be a good idea to leave him (and report it if he won't leave you alone - he can't threaten you with anything except physical, because he would be the one that would get into trouble). It's completely your choice though, that's simply my opinion - it's your life though. good luck.
-Mother Hubbard
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Rape is illegal.
An adult having sex with a minor is called statutory rape and it's illegal.
It does not matter if you are a week or so away from your 18th birthday, it's still statutory rape. It also does NOT matter if you gave that person consent either.
If you say you are having sex with an 18 year old, they WILL put that adult under arrest and try to do a rape kit on you. (Witnessed this)
Drop the rapist. It's not unusual for someone to willingly continue having sex with the person they got raped by. You were forced against your will. It's not right. A real friend or good person would not do that. If you can't get the guy out of your life then try getting the cops involved.
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Hun I am going to say this first. I was raped at 13 I had my virginity stolen from me and had sex with guys for the hell of it. It was my way of dealing with it. I hate myself for that but I can't change the past. yeah it'll probably be illegal but I had sex with only older guys. i sm 18 my husband is 23.
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Ok, im not trying to tell you what to do here but if your still having sex with the guy that raped you, there is something wrong with that. If he raped you and now your having sex with him he is going to think that it was ok to rape you and in other words that you "liked" it. Stop having sex with the kid that raped you, talk to someone about it and get out of your confusion. The other kid go ahead and do what you want, as far as you've told me he's done nothing wrong. As for getting in trouble it depends on where you live. In most states he could get into a lot of trouble. But talk to him and see how he feels about it.
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It depends on your state, and/or country, however, in most places, the only person you are clearly endangering is yourself.
Please, stop. Casual sex is fine when you are being respectful and confident in your behavoir. Carrying on a sexual relationship with someone who raped you isn't respectful of yourself, and certainly doesn't seem like something a confident or secure person would do.
When you get confused you shouldn't just keep on doing what you are doing, You should stop and figure it out before you get in deeper. Take a break from sex and another look at the role you've given sex in your life. Even from this brief question, it doesn't sound like it's a positive thing for you at the moment.
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