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self esteem
Been married 22 years in 2 weeks.Husband served in military for 23 years became disabled while serving in military. i have never been thin probably gained 15 pounds since marrying. Have 2 grown children problem is this when we have an argument he always goes there. He says I would have thought by now you might have lost weight but all you are is fat. I dont know if he says it out of anger or really means it. All I know is it really hurts. I would love to lose weight but somewhere I lost who I really am. Can someone help me
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The only thing I can tell you for certain is that you married an asshole.
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People say things they don't mean i don't think he meant what he said i'm sure he loves you and thinks your beautiful you've got to be motivated to loose weight eat healthy and exercise believe in yourself
it isn't going to be easy to loose it but if you work hard enough i'm sure you'll be able to do it
he's got to realize that you gained weight since you
married him you should sit him down and tell
him how you feel otherwise he won't know what he told you..really hurt you try and get the situation straightened out he probably said it out of
anger or the words slipped out your best option is to talk to him and express how you feel it's not healthy to keep what your feeling to yourself get it all out in the open you'll feel better afterwards(:
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Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Ask him if he really isnt happy with your body or if he just says it while he is mad. Dont hide that it hurts you, let him know that it does. Communication is the most important thing in a relationship. Tell him that you want to loose weight but its not an easy thing and a little encouragement from him would be nice.
Hope i helped =]
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