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he hates me & i cant get over him
i was really good friends with this guy until i started to fancy him a LOT.
i knew he didnt fancy me back cause he kept talking about how he still fancies his ex.
but i just felt like i had to tell him .. so i did.
ever since then we barely talk to eachother. at the beginning we still said hello but now we just completely ignore eachother.
i dont think i can change all that .. it's just that it makes me feel really really bad.. cause i just moved here & he was one of my only friends.. & he seemed to care so much . he always invited me over when i felt homesick etc.... & now its all over.. i thought that i would get over it but i still cry a lot. and its been pretty much half a year now :S
& he also told me that he doesnt fall in love easely & that hes been fancying his ex for 2 years now .. but recently we got this new girl & he keeps checking her out. that really hurts too. i mean he used to check me out & told me im pretty etc..
i dont know i just feel sooo bad about this.
i dont really need help on how to go back to being friends because i dont really see it happening. as i said we barely look at eachother & i've tried to fix everything but it just doesnt work..
a good friend of his told me that i always reacts this way when a girl he doesnt fancy back fancies him. he did the same with another ex of his who is also not over him yet ..
i just wanna get rid of all the pain because i've really fallen for him & i cant seem to get over it. im just sick of crying everytime i'm at a place where we used to hang out or thinking about him all night...
he also sits next to me in philosophie class & it just sucks because he talks to everyone but me.
i just have the feeling that he hates me ..
help?!
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The only sure fire way to get over a person is to find someone else you like better. If you think that is impossible trust me on this you will find someone down the road you will like better. It's gonna hurt a first but once you find another person the pain will stop and you will forget the other boy. Taking up a cause that is interesting will aid in this process. Volunteering or playing a sport will make you feel good inside and confident.
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ohh boyy i'm in the SAME boat as you...
me and this guy had a thing (we didnt go out) but we had a thing and all of a sudden he just ignores me and i can't get over him.. its been a month and i still cry over him. so dont feel alone, there's lots of people out there who feel the same.
i'm still trying to get over him... here's how i'm doing it. I deleted him out of my brain. I know you dont want to get rid of him and you want to keep the memories.. but its just going to come back and haunt you and make you feel worse.
delete his number, delete any contact information, throw away anything you have that could remind you of him. in class, find someone else to talk to. just pick somebody and start a conversation. it's easy to make friends. just go along with their personality. (example, if somebody is talking about the hockey game, and you're not a hockey fan... go along with it. i'm not telling you to lie.. i'm just telling you to go along with their personality.) then after you get rid of him from your brain.. start over. make new friends, do new activities.. become a whole new person. do something really bizarre and crazy. like fung shui your room. or volunteer at your community. or take up a sport or club.
also, i think music can help you. listen to these songs
-soar- Christina Aguilera
-division- Aly and AJ
-goodbye- Christinia debarge
-hush hush- pussycat dolls-
-girls just want to have fun- Cindi Lauper
- 99 times- Kate Voegele
-beautiful- Lucy Schwartz
-le disko- shiney toy guns
-right back where we started from- Maxine Nightingale
-Shining star- Jump 5
-Stand by me- 4 the cause
-Sweet home alabama- Lynard Skynard
-This will be (everlasting love)- natalie cole
-up- the saturdays
-unwritten- natasha bedingfield
-sunshine- atmosphere
-hollywood- madonna
-rush- aly and aj
-glamourous- fergie
-miami- will smith
-one original thing- cheyenne kimball
-walking on sunshine- aly and aj
- just dance- lady gaga
-pocketful of sunshine- natasha bedingfield
-disturbia- rihanna
-feeling good- michael buble
-here comes the sun- the beatles
those are the songs that make me the happiest. and hopefully they will make you happy too :) try doing something that really makes you happy. like for me- when i dance and sing, i always have a smile on my face and immediatly become happy
good luck :)
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