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Is it worth it?
So this girl that I really like decided she just wanted to be friends, after talking for like 6 months and it sucks but she still wants us to be close. I have a feeling that she is eying someone else now but the other day she told me she misses me and how close we were. This really threw me off but her statuses on a social site and stuff say can't you see I really want you. and stuff like that and I honestly doubt it's about me. I gonna do something that never seems to work but I'm gonna spill my guts to her hoping this will sway her but I don't know... We've been through so much together, I lost two best friends because of her, one of them who was trying to date her first but then I kind of stole her from him but I thought it was worth it because she's changed my life and she tells me that I've changed her's and I can't see myself with anyone else but her. I can honestly say I need her but do you think she's really worth it? I'm just scared of getting turned down.
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Honestly I think you should just ask her if she likes someone else...it sounds like she does but be sure.She should be honest and You ll find out if shes into someone else or if its you.Be careful though the truth can hurt so dont do make your decision without being mentally prepared for anything.Best of luck <3-KC
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First lemme say that from what I've seen from myself and other people that we have less control over who we like than previously thought. It's how you react to these feelings that define who you are. Go ahead with what you planned to do but remember if this girl doesn't work out you will find someone better ahead. More fish in the sea as they say. And lastly don't let a girl come between you and your friends again. It ain't worth it trust me on that.
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i don't think you should try it. she's already told you she just wanted to be friends, and you said yourself that she's eyeing someone else. there are some cases when the girl just wants to be really close friends with someone, but she doesnt want to be involved romantically. now, if you're willing to lose her as a close friend by whining and telling her what she already explained to you wasn't going to happen, go right ahead. i say, you be happy that she at least wants to be close with you. give it some time. maybe she'll finally realize that you're a really great person. :) good luck
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