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Posted Thursday June 10 2010, 11:11 am
ok i have a crush on this guy at school and i realy like him but im not sure if he likes me, he often smiles at me randomly if i pass him in the passages on my way to class and if i walk past him at break my friends say he looks at me with a smile and not a look like ow its her but more like his face brightins up, im not the kind of girl wich all the guyz have a crush on and some people say he is always friendly with the girls but some say they think he likes me.if he sometimes walks past me he will start a convosation, come to think of it 9 out of 10 times he ussualy start talking to or he give a smile and softly starts to laugh,the problem is im not sure if he likes me or if he realy likes me or if he is just being friendly again,i realy like him please help.
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Posted Thursday June 10 2010, 2:09 am
Okay this might be long... i am a fourteen year old girl (soon to be 15) and i\'ll be a sophomore next year. i just got out of a seven month relationship with a sixteen year old boy, the grade above.
Here\'s the thing. he basically guilted me into giving him blowjob... yeah it was a big stupid long story and i\'ve already asked a question about that haha. but anyway it\'s been about three weeks since me and... uhm we\'ll call my ex sam... broke up. anddd i kind of already like this new boy :/ hahah yeahhh... is that bad?? to start liking someone three weeks after a break up?? of course sam waited very close to two days (a day and a half basically) to start hooking up with girls... whatever he\'s a douche. and see, this new g...
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Which guy..?
Posted Thursday June 10 2010, 1:06 am
Ok there are these 2 guys. One is my ex's best friend that I'm not so close with, but I'm getting closer with now, and another is like my best friend and I've known him for a few years, we've been like brother/sister close.
Not too long ago I realized how much I like that guy that I've known for so long. I like him a lott and I'm quite comfortable around him. He lives closer to me than the other guy but I don't hang out with him outside of school. He really makes me feel incredible though.
The other guy I'm talking about lives a little farther but I sneak him over my house every few nights. We are dating right now and we've already had sex a few times. He's been on home detention for a while and he's going to...
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im told i act like a tease, altho i do nottt
Posted Thursday June 10 2010, 12:40 am
16/f iv only had two true to be boyfriends, one for a year n a half, the other for two months. The thing is though my two best girl friends tell me im to much of a flirt and even a bit of a tease.
they say i seem like it by how i talk even posture, and i have mainly guy friends. i dont do anything with guys other than if their my boyfriend, i dont even give hugs really other than my best guy friend which means nothing. i dont notice i do any of this, yes i do flirt but not to every guy and i dont think im a tease. iv grown up being the only girl in my family n relatives. i dont dress very showy and im not even a girly girl i am who i am not how anyone wants me to be. a few guys do like me but i wana stay single, both exs cheated on m...
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why is he acting like this?
Posted Thursday June 10 2010, 12:03 am
so there is this guy. we were cool and everything. he showed interest in me. like he would look at me all the time and turn around quickly. we would look at each other. he would get into my conversations. and so i started showing interest in him back. but then i guess he figured out i liked him because he told my friends. and one of my friend was like i kinda think she does like u and he was like yeah i think so too. well when i talk to him he would just look at me and dont say anything back. but then he will talk to me sometimes and its okay but if i say something its like he is ignoring me. so im like confused. he is like younger than me and he doesnt date alot so maybe thats probably but its not like i was trying to date him. i dont know im just confused
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If he likes me, why does he get girlfriends all the time?
Posted Wednesday June 9 2010, 11:53 pm
Alright, there's this really hot boy. All the girls love him. He's dated a few girls but I feel like I get extra attention from him and we've never even talked before. He looks at me an awful lot and makes it quite clear that he's looking, he's still looking when I look at him then we just stare at each other and I love it. When he walks with his (ex) girlfriend in the hallway, he always looks so bored when he walks by me, idk if that's how it just happens but he never looks happy with her when I'm around. Why is this? If he likes me, why does he get girlfriends all the time? Does he even like me? Thanks!
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idk what to do
Posted Wednesday June 9 2010, 10:48 pm
ok so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 8 months. things were great for the first 6 months or so and then we started fighting almost everyday. weve gotten over that but now things arent the same. she doesnt have as strong of feelings as she did before but we both want to get the spark back. how can we get things back how they used to be?
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How can i make someone three years older than me like me ?
Posted Wednesday June 9 2010, 7:46 pm
okay .. so iv talked about this kid that 3 years older than me has a gf and stuff ... but how can i make him like me ?
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I like him but he has feelings for someone else?
Posted Wednesday June 9 2010, 7:03 pm
So I have this friend and I really do still like him but he has feelings for someone else and thinks i don't have feelings for him anymore. I don't want this to be complicated and I really want to just move on because I love having him as a friend and he is the best one I have ever had.... how do I get over him fast....... ! I am desperate.
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dont know what to do.
Posted Wednesday June 9 2010, 9:41 am
okay im only 16 and by boyfriends 19. i dont know what to do because my mom says that im not allowed to date him because she said so, but i really like him and my mother just wont see my side. so what should i say so shell let me show her that i really like him and should stay with him?
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love triangle ish
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 11:51 pm
If you and a friend were interested in the same guy what do you do? Do you go for it or back off? Thanks!
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Engagement Ring
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 10:46 pm
I know absolutely nothing about engagement rings/diamonds. My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged so I went to go look at this ring.
http://www.zales.com/product/index.jsp?productId=4209145&kpc=1
Supposedly the color and clarity of the diamond are not that great but I love the setting. I didn't notice anything weird about the diamond when i went to look at it but I didn't look super close for imperfections. Can an average person actually tell the difference in clarity and color with a naked eye?
He's all worried that the diamond is not good enough. I told him as long as you can't see anything wrong with it what is the point of spending more money on a better diamond? <...
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Is there a rule about texting guys?
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 8:46 pm
We've been flirting back and forth now for awhile and we text almost every day. He usually texts me first but sometimes I want to text him first. I don't really have much to talk about...like I said, we talk almost every day. But I worry that when he doesn't text me, he's losing interest. But on the same token, I worry that if I text him, he'll get annoyed and think I'm bothering him. But I like talking to him. I like getting texts from him. Even if we don't talk about anything. I just like talking to him. But I don't want him to think I'm desperate and don't have a life or something. What should I do?
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so scared to even kiss him .. whats wrong with me!!
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 8:01 pm
18F.
So I haven't kissed a guy in probably 3yrs .. oh my goshh embarassing. I'm a pretty girl, it's just that I'm afraid. I've kissed guys before, but it didn't meant anything and it was a little peck kiss.
Now there is this guy i've been hanging out with ..and every time we hang out I like don't want to be put in the situation where he could kiss me because I'm scared .. yeah dumb I know. I don't want to mess it up, but I do want to kiss him .. I realy like him and don't want to lose him.
The thing that worries me is there are two kind of kisses, a peck and an "open mouth" if thats what you want to call it haha. I'm scared if we go into kiss we're going to do the exact opposite. Like h...
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Does He Like Me? He's So CONFUSING!
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 6:40 pm
Damn. First of all, I'm sorry this is so long but please read it! I need help/opinions! Guys are SOOOOO confusing.
20/F
There's this guy that I've had a crush on ever since I met him. We had a class together in high school and we were okay friends-- aquaintances. I mean, when we were together in class we had a ball (he's a fun, jokster kind of guy) but we never really hung out outside of that class. Then he graduated, joined the Marines, and was deployed to Afgan. He also had a girlfriend at the time. While he was away, we chatted every now and then on Myspace just the quick "hey how are you?" type thing.
So fast forward about 2 years to present day. He's back from Afgan and he is in North Ca...
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What could I do to turn him on?
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 3:47 pm
16/f
I want to have sex with my bf soon and I was wondering what I could do to turn him on before we start doing it? Like which spots on his body should I touch the most,where should I kiss,stuff like that...
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pursuing a relationship
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 3:32 pm
What is it with black college men and not wanting to be "tied down" as they call it, meaning in a relationship.
My best friend and I have been hanging out multiple times a week for several months now, we have admitted to liking each other, that we aren't seeing or talking to anyone else, and yet we are not official? Why? Although I love him, and he's my best friend, I feel like I'm wasting my time, I want something more meaningful then what we have now, I want a relationship.
How do I approach the subject? We haven't talked about it, any topic of relationship and commitment has been so far avoided. I haven't mentioned anything because part of me wants him to say something first, and the other part is...
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my ex that im still in love with
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 11:21 am
I still love my ex ,probably because our breakup was just over the fact that he didn't feel the same as at the beginning of our relationship and he saw me as a friend.He still does see me as a friend and during our relationship ,we kind of combined our groups of friends together and we all hungout and now that we brokeup, we still do that and hangout all the time.We've been broken up for like 2 months but i still see him almost everyday.He knows im always with my best friend Val and he always texts her and asks her what we are all doing and stuff and hangs out with us.He never texts ME asking me what we are doing but he knows that I'm there with them.Him and his brother are like best friends so they come and hangout with us all the time and...
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Should I go for it?
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 9:38 am
16/f
My bf is so asking for it,I don't know what to do...Every time we're on a date we both get turned on like crazy and it's been like this for a while.We want to have sex soon and it's gonna be my first time,but I'm a bit scared.I told him that and he said he'll be gentle and careful with me...I really love this guy but I'm quite insecure and indecisive about this.Should I have sex with him if I feel like it?I know only I can decide when's the right time for me to do it.Still there are so many dilemmas,like,what if the condom breaks? that causes insecurity...what should I do? I really want him and can't hold back anymore.
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how do i ask him to sign my yearbook?
Posted Monday June 7 2010, 11:39 pm
13/f
we just got our yearbooks and i dont know how to ask the guy i like to sign mine...i REALLY want himtosign it..but im a little nervous and scared...and he sits right next tome in science
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