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idk what to do
ok so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 8 months. things were great for the first 6 months or so and then we started fighting almost everyday. weve gotten over that but now things arent the same. she doesnt have as strong of feelings as she did before but we both want to get the spark back. how can we get things back how they used to be?
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This detachment can happen for a variety of reasons and this reason seems to be the fact that you guys have had a lot of arguments almost everyday!
- To try and get things rolling back up again like they used to, she has to see the nice,tender side of you as when she first met her and the same goes for her my friend... she has to have that shine in her eyes... that nice smile and sort of shy stare as when you guys had strong emotions for each other.
- I suggest you show you care and remember certain things that she thinks you have forgotten things like your anniversary, her B-day and tell her that you love her and care about her. Right now she needs to be cared for and be felt that she is loved by you again. All that fighting has taken a toll on both you guys... take time to be surrounded by positive energy, take her to a nice dinner one night and don't tell her! make it a surprise! woman love surprises if done at an appropriate time! buy her something that symbolizes your love for her earrings, a necklace and so on. Buy her/order for her a bouquet of roses and leave a special note on them and leave them on her front door, or give them to her in person.
- the idea is to be and get creative to bring that amazing Spark of love back.
- One important thing to take careful note on is to try and stay away from negative vibes... what I am trying to say is to not take your fights and hurt each other... if you see her getting fired up during one of these don't ignite the fire even more by saying more hurtful things back to her, take a deep breath, relax and walk away, later on when both of you guys are more relaxed, you can work things out in peace and comfort.
- I wish you guys the best of luck if anything, feel free to message me for further answers.
-trueadvice3
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This is very common in most relationships ..why ? because the first 6 months of your relationship were the pre-comfortable stage. I would suggest that if you really want to get the spark back try doing fun activities ..going to the park for a picnic,out to dinner those sorts of things ..this will only work if you both put effort into it..if not sometimes it is better to let things go then to hold onto something that makes you unhappy and tense from all the fighting..I would also suggest try talking out your problems ...hope that helped at least a little bit ...;) good luck
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