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Is this why he's so dependent on me?
Posted Thursday June 17 2010, 5:11 pm
Hello..
Hello I've been in a relationship with my boy friend for a long time now. He means everything to me. <3 I love him so much. We both are alike and very diffrent in many ways. Were alike by he is very senstive just like me, but it seems to me that he is more sensitve he's very senstive and he's has this fear of losing me. He's always afraid..and I wonder if thats because of him not having a mother in his life? You see his mother was into drugs, and he has no wishes of being with her. Also I think it's the fear of me breaking up with him, like the last few girls he's dated. I really would like to know the reason..and I want to make him feel more secure..what do you think ?
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being friends after a breakup
Posted Thursday June 17 2010, 12:20 pm
16/f
so a month ago my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me and i was badgering him with questions because what he was saying wasnt quite making sense. but i know its time to move on. any tips of how i can?
and also i wanna be friends with him but its like how do i even do that? like do i casual talk with him? dont text him for a few weeks?
im still hurt by what he did and im still confused by it. i guess i just need help.
his reasons for breaking up with me were that things faded, he didnt have time and that i was more serious than him. and then he kept telling me that there was no one else. but i dont get why we couldnt just work it out?
im totally over him i just need more help.
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Bf/Gf/ Cheatinq .....
Posted Thursday June 17 2010, 11:37 am
Okay ... If you had a boyfriend/girlfriend , n you know that he/she is cheating but you just don't wanna let him/her go .. would you leave and be done with him/her or stay & continue 2 get cheated on ?
16 / female
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break ups with girlfriend
Posted Thursday June 17 2010, 1:04 am
i am from Philippines,21 years old.
what should i do after having break up with my girlfriend?
i need advice.
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He feels like he's arguing with himself?
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 11:58 pm
I was talking to a guy, trying to help him through some problems he was having, and he (sort of jokingly I think) said that I was too much like him and that he felt like he was arguing with his self? His exact words were something like "...you...you are the only person I can't argue with because I feel like I am arguing with myself. stop it! hehe." Is this a good thing? Like, I'm not TRYING to be like him. I'm just very honest and open with him and I guess we think a lot alike. So this would be a good thing right? Don't guys want girls that think like them?
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my ex is my boyfriend's best friend
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 11:24 pm
he was my first real love, and broke up with be abruptly when i was 12. now i'm 16, and i thought for sure i was over it, but now i'm not so certain. i started going out with his best friend a while back, and they were both fine with my ex's and my own history together, so there wasn't a problem there. i don't see him very often, but when i know he's coming to my boyfriend's house or i know i'm going to see him, i get anxious. my stomach starts hurting with anxiety and i get really paranoid about the way i look or act. does this mean i still like him, or am i just weird.
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Why me?
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 10:58 pm
I'm a marine.
I was looking at the memorial ceremony for a guy I knew and they were showing pictures of his wife and I just want to know why I survived and he didn't. Why was I sent home to a bitch that cheats on me when he could have been sent home to a wife who loves him? WHY?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?
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i really want to know if i should give him a chance or not.
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 9:23 pm
Okay so this is basically goin to be the story of my life, haha.
Jk, the story of my past last four years, i have always been a social butterfly and that's how i met my boyfriend he was not so good looking and i always thought i was pretty good looking i had never gone out with a guy i didnt physically find attractive but my friends begged me they said he was really nice.when we got in the relationship he would always check out other girls n point out how much hotter they were so i became extremely jealous i would not let him talk to girls or have a myspace or facebook or go in out or anything he would always do it behind my back anyway go out and stuff and i would cry everyday because of stuff he would say or do so he stopped checki...
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Vague response.
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 8:30 pm
Don't say I'm getting in my friend's love life, I was simply asking one question, it's not like I'm making them fall in love. I had said to this boy, that I dated in like, 8th grade, that him and my friend seemed like they were really hitting it off. He said "yea, totally..." If he feels like they are, why did he put "..."?
Little background info : he usually answers her right away, they never talked face to face, it's summer so don't say they have to because they kinda can't, I told him he should come to a little get together my friend is hosting and he said "yea, maybe". These kinda things lead me to believe he likes her but why the "..." if he does like her or thinks they're hitting ...
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should i leve him, or give him what he wants?
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 8:14 pm
i'm a girl, 16 years old going on 17, and i have been dateing my boyfriend sense March 27, 2010. The problem with dateing him is there's a age gap... we are 5 years apart, or 4 depends on how you look @ it, which means he's 21.
so in the first month of our dateing everything was cool and all we would do is hang out. in the 2nd month, or the middle of the 2nd month there was a prblem, he wanted to have sex. see i know that if we do have sex it would be counted as rape, and he would go to jail and i would be in trouble, BIG TROUBLE. so i told him we should wait. so during may he tells me he wants to change his life and start going to church with me.
one day after church i went with him to go meet his mom, we me...
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His 20 and im 15, but I really have feelings for him.
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 6:49 pm
Okay well theres this guy his so perfect to me, but thing is his 20 and im 15. Well I did have a boyfriend of a year, but we broke up in January. I've talked to one guy sense him, but he played me. Then this guy comes into the picture and I just have all my feelings back that I had with my exboyfriend for him. Like me and lets say his name is bob well Bob and me have like these deep conversation that he says he can never open up to anyone like that. My parents loved him until this big thing blew up with my "aunt" well he had dated my aunts daughter awhile back like 2 years ago and said he use to beat on her and all kinds of lies well it got back to my grandma and now my family doesn't really want us dating. They said we can be fri...
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trust issues
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 5:33 pm
So I've had a lot happen in my life, and I have a big issue with trust. I've been cheated on and a lot of other things. I have a new boyfriend, and I've known him for a long time, he was cheated on too. He says he really likes me and is happy with me, and he tells me everything that goes on with him and tells me he doesn't lie and cheat because someone did that to him and it made him extremely sad. He's a really nice guy, and I like him a ton, except I still find myself doubting him. I can't trust anyone anymore even if I want to! I really want to trust him because I feel like he is honest, but I just can't. What should I do?
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did i do the right thing?
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 12:48 pm
i broke up with my boyfriend of a couple months because i couldn't feel that "spark" that i had with my ex. he's soo hot and fun to hang out with and good at hooking up haha but i just can't see myself in a relationship with him. like some things he does just aren't ok with me and i don't want to fight about things i want to enjoy summer and not have to worry. we still hook up so i guess were more of the friends with benefits deal. he really wants to get back together. he is a good kid but we fight alot and he smokes alot, doesn't have a car (so i have to do all the driving), and he's the "bros before hoes" deal. i don't want him blowing off his friends to see me but its the complete opposite, like he would blow me off t...
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When a guy friend calls all the time does he like you?
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 11:16 am
I've been friends with this guy for like 6 months now or so. He's really a great friend of mine. The weird thing is that he is calling more frequently now. My mom said she thinks that he likes me since he is always calling me to talk about this, that, or the other. I don't want to come out and ask him and be all embarrassed if he is just trying to be a good friend to me or something but I do want to know if he has feelings for me now.
So, if a guy calls you all of the time then does it mean he likes you?
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Can you get pregnant with clothes on?
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 7:28 am
Okay me and my boyfriend were making out today on the bed and things got a little hot and heavy and he got an erection. So he was "hard" and i was on top of him and we were kissing and i was wearing shorts like really short and a pad just in case anything came out of my vagina and underwear. He was wearing gym shorts you know the baggy ones and there like flannel and like cloth and he had a wet spot by his penis so im guessing that was semen and i backed off a bit because i was getting a little paranoid. My lower body half didn't touch there but i might have noticed a little late and if i was on top of him and the dot was there is it possible for it to get into my vagina? it didn't get on my shorts or anything. anyway he left and ...
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Past Fling.
Posted Tuesday June 15 2010, 11:18 pm
Alright, I had this past "fling" I guess you could call it. It was but it wasn't because we never talked face to face. I initiated everything, I wrote the notes first, I made the phone calls first, I set up the time and place we could talk but every time, he was to nervous to talk. In his note he expressed everything, I actually still have his note that's how near and dear to my heart it is. He said in it that he likes me so much and he never felt this way about a girl before. That I'm his only one, that every time he wanted to talk to me he couldn't because he would get this knot in his stomach. We cared about each other a lot, I know you're probably laughing reading this seeming as it isn't a real relationship if he couldn't tal...
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29 yr Old Female: Take the high road or fight with faith?
Posted Tuesday June 15 2010, 9:37 pm
Many people will say the best relationship is one that happens to be your best friend. Not me. I've known my guy for 15 years and we've been 'dating' for almost 8 of those years. Although we don't have kids together, we both have a daughter from a previous relationship. Our relationshp is kinda rocky. He's had unprotected sex with someone else and I took some racy pics for someone else. We both agreed to work on our relationship but I've realized I can't fully trust his words when he says 'I love you' and in turn I am unable to want or even enjoy sex with him. Any advice???
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Can you get pregnant with your clothes on?
Posted Tuesday June 15 2010, 6:56 pm
Okay, so my boyfriend came over and we were making out on the bed. it got a little hot and heavy and he got an erection. He was wearing gym shorts and underwear and i myself was wearing shorts, underwear and a pad. but i am not on my period it was just in case something would come out. so there was a wet spot on his shorts and i think the semen went through his pants so i backed off a bit and didn't even touch my loweerr body to his. My underwear feels a little wet and when he left i went to the bathroom and my pee was alot darker then usual i feel a little queasy but i think that is just from how nervous i am. my tummy is doing some irregular rumbling and i pooped but i think it's doing that because i might be pregnant. White jelly like su...
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so visiting an ex
Posted Tuesday June 15 2010, 6:06 pm
I have been dating someone for roughly 3 months now. Their last relationship was a very unhealthy, verbally and emotionally abusive one. My SO has decided that in order to move on in life, and our relationship, that visiting the ex to gain closure is necessary. The ex lives several hundred miles away. My SO intends on staying at the ex's apartment. I feel in general I have been really supportive, but I do have somer reservations, and am not comfortable with every aspect of this trip. In particular, do I have the right to ask my SO not to share a bed with the ex? Or is this something I should just expect (I do expect it, but should I make this expectation clear?)
thanks in advance
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getting a guy?
Posted Tuesday June 15 2010, 3:28 pm
ok, so im 14 and i really want a boyfriend! i won't date anyone at my school because most of them are pervs and some aren't my type. i don't know where to find one? i never find anyone at the mall and im not joined in any clubs that have guys in them. i see some at the movies or at resturaunts and stuff but when i see one i like, i don't know what to say? i could probably get past "hi" and then freeze up or start giggling like an insane person when i don't know what to say. I'm also afraid that they will see i am trying to flirt with them and reject me harshly (like calling me names or laughing at me) i know it sounds wierd but i've seen some girls at school get rejected like that and i don't want that to happen to me. I know if ...
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