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love him
Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 2:34 am
okay so my boyfriend tells me he loves me allll the time, and i really really like him, but i dont think/know if i love him back. today he asked if i love him, and i said im just not ready to say the words or anything but what if im never ready ? its not like id break up with him over it cause hes absolutely amazing i jusst dont think i know what love is, and your not supposed to say it unless you know. is it possible to have someone be everything to you but not love them? with my first boyfriend i knew i loved him. but i think a lot of that was just the fact that having a real close relationship was new to me. now that i have experienced that, i feel like the excitement of a first love isnt there but i stilll want to spend every moment wit...
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This guy
Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 2:25 am
15/f almost 16
So I've been friends with this guy for 2 years. This year we have been getting really close. So he's a good friend. The thing is he is 18. I know its not a big age difference. I like him alot. The thing is him going to college. I've liked him for over a year now. He doesn't know. I don't exactly know what I'm asking but I need something.
We flirt all the time and I'm best friends with his sister so I hang out at his house.
He tells me alot about himself and past stuff so we really know each other and all that.
I just don't know if there could be more. Since he's going to college I guess it wouldn't work anyway right?
So what should I do? Should I get over him? If I should, how? I...
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popping a cherry
Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 12:24 am
I had sex with my girlfriend for the 6th time today, and she bleed a little.. and she just told me that i popped her cherry and it wasn't her period. but she's used tampons and she has already had sex with another guy before me... so is it possible that i really was the first to pop her cherry??
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am i ready for a guy?
Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 12:13 am
ok, so im 14 and i really want a boyfriend but im not sure if im ready. i feel totally ready but then when i see guys in person and talk to them, i can't imagine kissing them because i feel nervous and sort of not ready. it's like an easier said than done thing, you know? so, am i ready or what's up with me?
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Let Me Tell you My Painful Little Story.
Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 12:03 am
Okay so it all started about a year and a half ago! I had just gotten suspended from school for the rest of the year because of fighting. My friend Mariah had ran from her group home and I joined her. After our first night on the run, we were introduced to a couple people, one of them being the boy I would fall in love with, Jason! I can replay the first moment I seen him with perfection, as if it just happened. Here came this loud, adorable boy in his dickies! It was an instant attraction! That night me and mariah stayed at his house and me and him stayed up all night.(justkissing) Did I mention we were EXTREMELY drunk?! Well the next day when I woke up laying next to him, I pretended like that night never happened, even though I had major...
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He never texts me... like a whole day without texting!
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 11:24 pm
17/f
So, me and this guy have been talking for quite awhile now. We hang out and act just like couples do. The problem is, he never texts me. Sometimes we go all day without texting and it urks me so bad! I text him and he will write back maybe once or twice and thats it, unless he askes me to hang out.I just hate how he dosent text me that much. I know we don't have to talk 24/7 but i dont wanna go all day without talking to him. Ive mentioned it to him 3 times and all he says is "im sorry." I really really like him but i dont know what to do. :/ Help! Should i text him first, not text until he texts me or what?
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I'm so confused
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 11:04 pm
Me 13/f
him 13/m
I have posted ALOT of questions on here so if you feel like reading those, just go to my page or column or watever. Anyways here's the story.
I am IN LOVE with this guy. He is my best guy friend. We live three houses away. So I hang out with him somtimes. I've even been inside his house. We always walk home together. Lately on our walks home he has been "touching" me. It's mainly my butt but he's started touching my boobs. I always move away and call him a pervert. Bt he asks me if i want him to stop. And I just don't say anything. Bc if I tell him to stop then he'll think I don't like him when I do. So a few days ago we were testing and I asked him who his crush was an...
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Why do people think I am gay?
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 10:11 pm
15/F
I am a girl and the whole school thinks I'm gay. I'm not a homosexual though at all. I like guys. I'm VERY attracted to guys. The problem is I like guys that are a lot older and it's embarrassing to tell anybody because they'd think I'm nasty. By a lot older I mean, well, A LOT.
So, I don't tell my friends when I have a crush on a boy and I don't find the same guys they find hot attractive. They haven't ever seen me with a boyfriend BUT they never saw me kissing on a girl or something that would make me a lesbian.
I do have short hair but it's in like a pixie style that I really love and I've had the haircut for a few YEARS now so it isn't like I chopped it all off overnight. I'm not butchy ...
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Things That Turn a Guy on
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 10:06 pm
Do guys get turned on by different things? I was talking to my boyfriend about sex and what turns him on and he sounded really weird. He said that most "normal" things don't turn him on like seeing boobs or something. He said he really didn't find porn interesting either and likes to get off on other stuff. I don't know what he might be talking about. What other stuff? Is he weird?
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20 dirty questions ask your boyfriend
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 9:41 pm
I'm dating this guy and have been for the past 3 months. Things are starting to get heated up and I read some place that asking him dirty questions can get him into the mood. I don't want to have SEX SEX yet but I do want to make him horny and hard from time to time.
So, what are some dirty questions I can ask him? They can be basic questions, of course. We're both 15 and haven't had sex yet so we don't have much experience at all. I mean, we've kissed and he's touched my boobs but that's it so far.
So, looking for 20 questions...ideas?
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my ex is spreading rumors... and some truth
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 2:35 pm
Okay so my 16 year old boyfriend dumped me in a text message four days after he guilted me into giving him head. (I'm fourteen). Yeah I know it was stupid and trust me, I regret it, and I'm not going to try and explain how I felt because no one can really understand it...
But anyway. So now we're broken up and I'm hearing some really awful things he's said about me (while we were dating and presently). And I really don't understand why he's doing this... Because I've done nothing to hurt him. I haven't screamed or yelled or made a scene or tried to get people to hate him or turn his friends against him (even though his best friend, we'll call him Pete, took my side after the break up, I never asked Pete to and my ex had been...
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threesome now a twosome
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 9:30 am
well i met this girl that i really like yes im bi sexiual we talked and she ask did i want to have a threesome with her and her ex i said yea we did and now me and her ex have been talking alone with out her and we ahve really come to care for one another and he wants to take her out the picture completly what should i do?
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is this wrong
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 9:21 am
well my fiance was arrested when i was five months pregnant with our child ,,he has been for one and a half year now i have currently been talking to someone for about three months now and i really am feeling for him should i try a relationship out with him? i still love my fiance but i have needs,emotionally and physically what should i do?
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Sex Without a Condom???
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 6:09 am
15/f
My boyfriend and I are going to have sex and when I told him I had just gotten on the pill, the first thing he says is how excited he is because he won't have to use a condom. When he said this, I had no idea how to respond because I've always been under the impression that with sex, a condom is ALWAYS a must for protection. My first time was last winter break when I was raped. Since then, I've been tested (clean) and only had safe-sex once with my current boyfriend. I know the fact that I'm having sex with my boyfriend at such a young age may seem "slutty" after such a short period of time but being raped, I never thought I'd have any desire to have sex again. Plus, now that I've done it, I'm much more open to...
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Sex Without a Condom???
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 5:52 am
15/f
My boyfriend and I are going to have sex and when I told him I had just gotten on the pill, the first thing he says is how excited he is because he won't have to use a condom. When he said this, I had no idea how to respond because I've always been under the impression that with sex, a condom is ALWAYS a must for protection. My first time was last winter break when I was rapped. Since then, I've been tested (clean) and only had safe-sex once with my current boyfriend. I know the fact that I'm having sex with my boyfriend at such a young age may seem "slutty" after such a short period of time but being raped, I never thought I'd have any desire to have sex again. Plus, now that I've done it, I'm much more open t...
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so confused ..
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 12:57 am
18female.
so i recently met this guy, about a month ago. the more we started hanging out, the more i fell for him. he knows i've had a ton of trouble with guys in the past and he told me he'd never give me a reason to not trust him and he would never hurt me. i met all his friends and he never once left me, he holds my hand in front of all of them, he cuddles with me, he calls me babe ..and he told me he liked me. well just now i go on his facebook and this girl asks when he's going up to his cabin and that he better be there and he says something like .."yeah i'll be up there, are you bringing any other hotties up there besides yourself haha :)" and seeing that, my heart literally dropped. i was like what the hell?...
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Why do all the weird girls get boyfriends?
Posted Friday June 18 2010, 12:21 am
Why do all the weird not very attractive girls get boyfriends? I'm in high school and it seems like all the guys like are these annoying girls. They are not even pretty. I just don't understand it. I feel like I'd I have to act differently to get a guy. Seriously, why is this?
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bitter about ex
Posted Thursday June 17 2010, 8:23 pm
I've been dating someone for a couple of years and i know he loves me and i love him and all of that great stuff. We have a happy and mature relationship and i can definitely see a future between us. There is just one thing that i cant fully get out of my mind though... around 2 years before we met, his ex-girlfriend moved away, cheated on him and broke up with him. she basically broke his heart. they had dated in high school for a couple years before this. i know this obviously because we talked about our exes when we started seeing each other, just because i think its good to know someones dating history. he says he was depressed about it for a really long time...ive asked him about her before and he says hes over it, and he really hasnt ...
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never felt this way before..
Posted Thursday June 17 2010, 7:31 pm
18F.
i'm probably one of the pickiest girls when it comes to guy but about a month ago i met this guy ..and i'm really starting to fall for him. i'm such a jealous person and i do have trust problem and so i just feel like he is talking to other girls besides me, which i mean there isn't anything wrong with that since we're not official, and i don't want to be a nagging girl, who knows he might not even be talking to any girls besides me, i'm just always worried.
i don't want to lose him because it's been about 2yrs since i've even found anyone i liked. we were texting last night and somehow got on the topic of me and how alot of creepers tend to go for me and like me and he was like "oh so does that mean ...
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stalling...
Posted Thursday June 17 2010, 5:43 pm
ok so i really need to have a serious talk with my friend(soon to be girlfriend) but everytime i try to talk with her about this i either et really nervous or she pretends she doesnt know what im talking about and if e don talk about this im not going to be her girlfriend how do i work up the confidence and tell her whats going on inside my head
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