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Jealous Of Ex?
Posted Wednesday September 1 2010, 12:13 pm
Ok I have never EVER been jealous of a partner's ex before. Except now I have.
In all honesty, I dont even know why I am jealous. I have seen many pictures of her & she isnt ugly, but I wouldnt say shes pretty, she doesnt really make an effort with herself. So I know that its not the looks thing.
In fact I dont know if its jealousy. Id rather be in my situation than hers. But for some reason I couldnt stop looking at pictures of her & my boyfriend together. & im interested in seeing what shes doing now, like if she has a new boyfriend, what shes been up to, looking at her pics etc.
They split about 2 months before we got together & its played on my mind whether he still likes her,...
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now hes a manwhore but does he actually have feelings for me ?
Posted Tuesday August 31 2010, 11:05 pm
last year me and this guy were close n we liked eachother but never told eachother . this year he changed and flirts with evry single girl including me . even though he write the same stuff to me as the other girls does he actually have any feelings for me ? i am a female 13 years old . he is a male 15 years old .
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completely stuck between two of the same
Posted Tuesday August 31 2010, 7:37 pm
I started talking too a guy, A, about 8 months ago. He lives in another state then I do, but we've been making it work. He's a little bit closed off, just like I am, but there's something about him I just can't give up. He's in the same career I am, and that's music. He's very sweet and not normally my type. Though he tours all the time, I still get to see him when I can. We have a connection I've never felt before. I'm crazy about this guy.
But then about 4 months ago, I met this guy, B, through friends and he's been amazing. We spend so much time together. He's the same age as A, has the same career as I do, but doesn't really tour. He lives near by me. He's going to school and doing music. He's got a good head on his shoul...
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i'm in love with my best friend.
Posted Tuesday August 31 2010, 7:27 pm
16/f
my best friend is a guy. and we have been friends for such a long time. we tell each other everything, never holding anything back. we can be on the phone for hours, hangout alone, and have so much fun together. but i really haven't realized i had romantic feelings for him until this year, and i don't know what to do about it. he's had a string of failed relationships. he always needs to be with someone. he's now back with his ex girlfriend. they fight all the time but they continue to see each other. they aren't dating yet, they are "together" i feel like i'd be perfect for him. we never fight. i know to act around him, i know how to handle him, we complement each other. but i'm scared to tell him, because i'm...
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how do i know if i am eligable to be pregnant
Posted Tuesday August 31 2010, 6:43 pm
how do i know if i can be pregnant does popping ur cherry make u bleed?
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What could i say?
Posted Tuesday August 31 2010, 4:04 pm
How could i tell my boyfriend that i loved him without really saying the words "i love you." Also, if my boyfriend is mad at me for any reason, how could i fix it quickly?
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I'm not sure what to do anymore.
Posted Tuesday August 31 2010, 9:23 am
This is a really long story, so i'll try to make it short.
I've known this boy for almost 7 months. we've dated for 4 of them. he left me, he just disappeared for 2 months. and i found him and we started talking again. he says he regrets doing what he did to me, and that he still loves me. he said that if he hadnt left we'd still be together. the thing is he now has a girlfriend who he started dating while we weren't talking. they fight all the time. she tells me what she says; she threatens to leave him almost daily but never does. i feel like she treats him like complete trash. shes only 13, and hes almost 18. which i find absolutely disgusting but thats beside the point. i've asked him multiple times to break up with her....
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Suprise for my boyfriendd , but ineed ideaas!
Posted Monday August 30 2010, 10:41 pm
Ohkaay so my boyfriend is the main star of the team ,hes #24 & hes known as Lil Beast bcus his older broda is known as Beast , and im ditching a weekend in LA to stay and watch the most important game at our school , he doesnt know it yet . And im going to show up at tha game whidd his jersey and a poster buh i dont kno what to put as a saying in the poster any ideaas?
P.S last year we made one for his broda and it said :
"#11 Beast Of All Beast <3"
& idnt want something sooo familiar to it!
Helpp ineed it donee by fridaaay! :/
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Two pronged question; Being friends with girls.
Posted Monday August 30 2010, 10:34 pm
19M
Ok, so the first question is easy really. Though it's something I've kinda worried about for a while about myself. To put it simply, I prefer to be friends with girls, perhaps date them, over sleeping with them. I'd rather stay in for a movie and cuddle than have sex. Does that make me weird, for a straight guy? None of my guy friends see what I like about it. (But my female friends tend to love it haha)
My main part to the question is, I see this aspect of me ruining future relationships. I tend to have a couple of female friends at all times, who I often spend an evening with alone. We might go out together, or watch a movie, or whatever. Nothing happens, we're just friends. At the moment I'm si...
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A Not-So-Uncomplicated Situation?
Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:38 pm
Okay, so i have a loooot of thinking to do on a subject. I'd really appreciate some help with this!
Let's say I dated a guy for 2 months(this summer). But, we both knew he was moving. So as you can tell, we weren't really a "serious" relationship (more like good friends with benefits). He was absolutely positive he wanted to break up with me from the get-go. Now with that said, you'd probably wonder why I'd even be with him- and I can just say, it was a light,fun fling kind of thing. In my opinion, his way of relationships was not how I'd view one. So now that he's moved, we've broken up, agreed to stay friends, blah blah blah. As you can see we're both not hurt by it at all. Now here's the thing. For awhile now, I...
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(long question(please answer!) My Mothers sex opinion
Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:30 pm
I am 13, and sexually active. DONT tell me off, becuase its MY life. I do use condoms, and I have only had sex with my current boyfriend, whom i have no intention of breaking up with. We love eachother very much, have a very healthy relationship (my mom agrees!), and sex was a wanted mutual agreement. I would like to tell my mom, because she thinks I tell her everything, but she says she would sign custody of me over to my strict Aunt if I lost my virginity (she would like me to wait until im married!!). She also says that its my life and one way or another, im going to do what I want, i just have to deal with the consequences, one of which being the Aunt issue (technically, thats saying i DONT have a choice). I dont know what I should do, ...
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Girls - What do you think of this?
Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:01 pm
Hey.. I'm just wondering what girls would think about this. I have an odd but harmless fetish but I'm terrified to tell my gf or anyone else. The fetish is called WAM, I like to see girls who are dressed up wearing nice clothes with makeup/hair done nicely get messy, like with pies, cake batter, chocolate, nickelodeon-style green slime, etc. All fully clothed, I hate when it is mixed with nudity although some other people like it that way. What would you think if your bf told you that? Would you do it with him if he would pay for new clothes or for your clothes to be cleaned?
Thanks, hopefully you don't think I'm totally crazy. Believe me otherwise I'm a normal guy.
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am i wrong for this
Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:00 pm
Iv been with my common law wife for 6 years and we had a good sex life up untill the last past year and now no sex no cuddling no nothing and its driving me crazzy I asked her what was wrong she told me it hurts for her to have sex yet she won't go see a doctor .so now I think about having sex with someone eles but not haven't done that yet .I love her to death but without sex I cannot do .I'm very high sex drivven think about it all the time but with her it just doesn't happen and I won't go on withou it .I don't consider myself selfish but I do have needs to be filled .so what do I do in this situation I have no clue but its making me deppresed and angery at the same time and masterbation is getting old its not the same as beeing close to...
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Is it really wrong
Posted Monday August 30 2010, 1:35 pm
So there's this guy i use to date 3 years ago which was my first love and a year after me and his brother started talking and now i really like his brother. would it be wrong for me to date his brother?
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how to tell him....
Posted Monday August 30 2010, 2:41 am
ok, so I have this guy friend who I have fallen hard for. He has no idea how much I like him. I want to tell him how I feel, but I'm afraid it will upset him or scare him, and he will not want to even be friends with me anymore. If anyone has a good way telling him without ruining our friendship, that would be great. Thanks in advance :) oh, and he is also a firm believer in the saying "actions speak louder than words". In case that changes anything
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a song from the heart?
Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 11:42 pm
PLEASE READ ALL OF IT
ok so,my friends and i were at school and one of them was going through her pockerts,(gum wrappers,lollipop sticks ect)she then found wat looked to be a note and proceded to say "oh shit you can't look at this"Feeling out of the loop i asked why she said she couldn't tell me that my boyfriend would tell me later.So i kept pestering her till she said "he will sing it to you wen its ready"Now i feel as though i need to write him a song or give him a gift. Our one month aniversiry is coming up.Any ideas???
thnx in advance
TINK2359
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What the hell was I thinking??
Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 12:51 pm
22/f. Not that any of you can read my mind, but any kind of insight would be wonderful. I apologize for the length here, but I need help.
Okay.
When I was 18, my boyfriend at the time had just broken up with me. He had been emotionally abusive, and quite good at convincing me that I was unattractive. Even so, as the vicious cycle goes, I thought I loved him. So these friends of mine said, "You're hot, who cares what he says? Let's do a photoshoot and we'll show you, and you can show him what he's throwing away."
So we did. But, uh, it got carried away, pretty much, and turned kind of pornographic. Like, straight up shots of my *ahem*, and things...I didn't even remember it getting that carried away. I was de...
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He wants to use a condoma and I don't want to so WHY?!
Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 11:33 am
lets go with me and my boyfriend have been having sex im on birth control and when i started going on birth control me and him started not using condoms and i dont really like using them. well the other night he was like i wanna try a condom with lube ok lets try then again last night he used a condom and i was just thinking why again? so i was like um no were not using those i dont like them and hes like really and i go yah. then no b.c i didnt want him to get mad. now all i was thinking hes having sex with someone else wtf! and i felt like if i asked him that hed filp b.c it might or most likely not true. so basically the mood was torn and he got mad b.c i left him hanging and now its weird. and i was like if your going to change the way ...
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weird dream?
Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 11:32 am
ok so i had this extremely weird dream i think it might be a sign or something but i was talking to this guy for a while things were going well until i found out he was telling his friends the things we would do together (mind you we did not have sex) so i got pissed off and stopped talking to him for a while then i kinda brushed it off because i know all guys like to brag to there friends but then again it was somewhat disrespectful anyways recently he has been texting me and so i had this dream that i was in his car and then he dropped me off at his h.s. and left and never came back i remember being really mad and felt rejected in the dream....i don't know it just was really weird and when i woke up it kind of made me think, i'd love to h...
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sexual intercourse?
Posted Sunday August 29 2010, 11:22 am
alright i am a 16 year old girl turning 17 next month going into my senior year, i feel like everyone in my grade has had sex, i feel a lot of girls feel so nonchalant about it all. I have had a boyfriend and i personally don't think i am ugly, i have never had sex before and i haven't met the right guy i feel i could do that with but i feel kind of insecure i feel that i should of had sex already considering im almost going to college i feel kind of like a loser i don't know i just wanna hear your thoughts on this & what i should do? please no hateful comments :)
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