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completely stuck between two of the same
I started talking too a guy, A, about 8 months ago. He lives in another state then I do, but we've been making it work. He's a little bit closed off, just like I am, but there's something about him I just can't give up. He's in the same career I am, and that's music. He's very sweet and not normally my type. Though he tours all the time, I still get to see him when I can. We have a connection I've never felt before. I'm crazy about this guy.
But then about 4 months ago, I met this guy, B, through friends and he's been amazing. We spend so much time together. He's the same age as A, has the same career as I do, but doesn't really tour. He lives near by me. He's going to school and doing music. He's got a good head on his shoulders and has a back up plan in life.
Both of these guys are the same age. Have the same career, although A is more successful then B is. And I'm crazy about both of them. I know that I can make it work, long distance with A, but I don't know if I should just stay with B. I feel like B is the safe bet, and A is a risk. But it's a game between my heart and my head and I don't want to feel like I settled for anyone. I need serious help with this. I want to choose because I feel terrible seeing both of them.
Please give me your input.
-Anndie
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Go with the one you love the most.
Who knows, it might not work out, but there is absolutely no point in settling just because someone may be a safer bet for you.
Later on in life you will always regret the boy you loved but didn't chase because you were too afraid it might not work out. So go for boy A. It sounds like you love him more.
Hope that helped :)
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I think that deep down you know which one is right for you. Please, don't ever "settle." You have to be with the guy that you're crazy about, because in the end, nothing less is going to compare. Go for the guy that you are most compatible with, but also the one that you have the strongest feelings for. I'm sure that there are qualities in each of these guys that keep you drawn to each of them respectively, but you have to think of them as people. Which person do you WANT to be with, is a different question than Which person SHOULD you be with. That's the key - you have to think about about who you WANT to be with rather than who you feel as though you SHOULD be with. From my own experience, you have to take a risk, because otherwise your relationship will be nothing but "comfortable." And it's nice to be comfortable with someone. But imagine how much better it would be feel to be "beyond" comfortable... to be head over heels, always-on-your toes, completely and utterly in love. I can't tell you who to choose, because I'm sure that both of these guys are great for you in different ways. But, I think you know what I'm getting at. Best of luck!!
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i think that you should go for boy b.. just because he will always be there for you and the other one wont. i mean you got to sit there and think who makes yu happier and who will always by your side when you need them. that good that you have alot of qulities together. money isnt anything by the way. if you really like or "love" someone then you wouldnt care who's more successful or not bt i think that b would treat you better and b more faithful because he lives near you the whole long ditance thing might not work out as you may have it planned.. i hope i didnt get you more confused laugh out loud bt i hope i helped =]]
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