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Posted Tuesday September 21 2010, 8:58 pm

So i was with my boyfriend the other day..and the topic came up, and he basically said that he thinks vaginas are unattractive. I thought guys liked...looking at that? I mean he didn't mean specifically mine, he just meant in general. I was kind of offended and now I'm really self conscious about it. Is that normal for a guy to say he doesnt like the way they look or whatever? (and no he isnt gay). Guys opinions would be good. Can anyone give me some insight please??
Thank you!

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I am stuck between two guys that mean the world to me


Posted Tuesday September 21 2010, 1:12 pm

I have dated this guy named, Carter for a year a couple years ago. Well we broke up and ever since then we have kinda "talked" and dated other people but my feelings for him have not changed. I have very strong feelings for him.
okay, so the next guy i dated last year, nicholas, i dated him for 9 and half months and we decided to break up for personal reasons. Well now they both want to be with me, & I have no clue who to choose! I have thought and thought and thought about it! I just don't know how to choose! pleaseeeeee help!!

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What should I do ? I am very confused


Posted Tuesday September 21 2010, 11:46 am

I have been dating the same man for about a year, 9 months of which he was gone. we have been planing on moving in together. The thing is he had told me the military would be paying for the housing. Do not get me wrong I do not have a problem paying my share, if that would have been what we had discussed since the begining. He has kind of kept me out of the rental process until now. Now he is saying he wants me to pay half of the rent. I am confused as to what to say or what to do. He will be moving in three months, so we are on a time limit to live togteher and see if i should move too,which if I do I will be laveing my family and a great job, but thats what you do when you love someone. He confuses me also becasue he does not say I love...

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And once again I want the guy I cant have.


Posted Tuesday September 21 2010, 8:32 am

This is going to be my failed attempt at keeping this short and simple.
I ALWAYS fall for the guys I can't have. This time I think I've effed up majorly. I was going out with the nicest, sweetest guy ever. He really reaaallllyyy liked me. But I think I kind of freaked out and I ended it. I think he's finally over me and NOW I want him! I try to talk to him and stuff but he rejects it. I don't know if he's just super busy or if he's snobbing me off on purpose.
I've come to the conclusion that the only reason I'm starting to like him now is because I can't have him.
My mum gave me a really hard time when I broke up with him, saying stuff like I finally found a nice guy and I broke up with him because I'd much rather hav...

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Odd situation.


Posted Tuesday September 21 2010, 1:31 am

Sorry if it's too long alrighty well theres this guy that used to work with me he had a girlfriend but it was werid between us we used t always talk he used to always ask me for advice because she treated him like crap.During that time i msgd him once telling him we should stop talking cause he had a gf and he got angry and ignored me for a month then we talked again and then he told me we should stop talking and we didnt talk again for a month and then we started talking again it was all good but he was basically quitting his job so it was his last day and we were kinda flirting and all and it was all good and he told me he wants to call and msg but his gf didnt want him to i told himu dnt have too the enxt day he msgd me telling me we sho...

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He keeps asking for sex and I don't know what to say anymore!


Posted Monday September 20 2010, 11:19 pm

my boyfriend keeps asking me to have sex with him but i havent gave him an answer yet so what do i do ? i'm 15

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how to make him want me again


Posted Monday September 20 2010, 11:15 pm

soo me and this guy had a thing at the end of the summer it was only for a few weeks but i was really starting to fall for him. then he just stopped texting me and told me he's kinda with this girl now. i work with him and i kinda want to make him realize like "wow thats what i missed out on". i don't like being played and messed with..how can i do thiss?

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to scared to let her in


Posted Monday September 20 2010, 9:49 pm

15f i love my girlfriend very much and i know she wouldnt hurt me or leave me and i know tha shell always be there for me but for some reason i dont believe her and i think shes gonna leave me like alot of other people have i also suffer from paranoia which doesnt help i dont want my past relationships to ruin my relationship with her what do u think i should do??? any advice would be deply apriciated

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Posted Monday September 20 2010, 9:16 pm

i really like my boyfriend and he likes me. we been dating for and month now, i just dont think him like i use to my ex, i think i would be fine without him... im not sure
were just like mates who happen to be dating
is this normal????
i want to know what he thinks about me i think he just wants the action, and keeping me cause no one else would give it to him

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New relationship?


Posted Monday September 20 2010, 5:36 pm

Less than a week ago, i broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months. He was devastated, and he still keeps calling me and obsessing about what happened between us. I have no interest of getting back with him and i just want him to leave me alone. For about a month now, i've liked this other guy. We've been friends for a while, but we've gotten close and i really really like him. I found out recently that he likes me too. I want to be with him, but i just got out of a long relationship myself, and im not ready for another commited relationship. But i really like him a lot and i dont want to lose him, but im not ready for a relationship just yet. Its not fair to him but its also not the right time. I feel like he's getting screwed over and i feel so bad. What should i do?!? Thanks so much :]

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break up or stay together?


Posted Monday September 20 2010, 5:22 pm

my bf is 5 yrs older than me and has totally different views on waiting for certain things than i do.. he keeps trying to moves us fwd and it keeps making me madder every time. what should i do?


also: anytime i mention the words "break up" he flips out and becomes all emotional...


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i am an obsessive boyfriend


Posted Monday September 20 2010, 4:50 am

how do i stop i dnt want to lose her out of my life cause i love her so much

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Problems with girlfriend of over a year...


Posted Monday September 20 2010, 4:44 am

I have a girlfriend that I have been going out with for 14 months. She lives 2 hours away and I see her almost every weekend- I either take her back to my house or I stay at her house for the weekend. Things have typically gone fine until about two months ago. We have fought more and more. I am friends with my ex's uncle, and this bothers her tremendously. However, me and him are good friends and I am not planning on stopping hanging out with him because he is an awesome guy and in some ways my idol. Anything that has to do with my ex girlfriend, my girlfriend is totally against it, even though I am totally over avoiding my ex and we have even somewhat become friends. My current girlfriend and I started going out approximately three weeks a...

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Does he like me?


Posted Monday September 20 2010, 2:44 am

Well basically, I asked this boy out a few weeks ago and he said no, but then he asked me out. Is it because he feels guilty or not, I can't tell.

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mixed signals.


Posted Monday September 20 2010, 1:42 am

18/f; he's 17/m. i am developing feelings for this guy but i'm not sure how he feels about me. i work with him. just started talking to him pretty recently. my friend gave me his number because i found a funny pic that reminded me of him so i sent it to him. we havent stopped texting since and this was a week ago that i first texted him. so all day every day we text. he was flirty from the start, but now his flirts are more specifically about me - like he compliments my eyes, for example. just little things like that that he couldn't really say to another girl. i'm really confused though, because there's things that lead me to believe that he likes me, and things that don't.
he describes himself as shy, but i really disagree. i think...

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He doesn't want me hanging out with other guys?


Posted Monday September 20 2010, 1:35 am

Everytime my boyfriend sees something that a guy posted on my facebook, he freaks out. I want him to be able to talk to me without freaking out "/ he doesn't trust me around any guys but he's aloud to be around girls. It's like then why can't I do it? He just fights bout everything single thing I do. I only hang with 2 or 3 females & the rest are guys. I mean, I'm not gonna change my group of friends just for him. I really need help with this one. I'm 18 & a girll.

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is it okay to hang out with his friend and his girl friend?


Posted Sunday September 19 2010, 11:24 pm

so this guy (justin) and I were together for about a year. we were each other's first love. its been about a year or more that we haven't talked. I went to a party and ended up meeting one of his close friends(josh). Josh ends up wanting to hang out the next weekend, and tells me that Justin wants to come with his girl friend. Its really hard to get over your first love, and i still love justin. I want to go and hang out because it would be fun, but i'm really nervous because i might get a little jealous of the girl...but i don't really know what to do. what do you guys think about the situation? thanks for your feedback

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Should I ignore him?


Posted Sunday September 19 2010, 9:40 pm

So , there is this guy , and I have been playing hard to get. So , as I did he kept trying to ask me to hang out and finally i'm giving him a chance. So , he said he really wants a chance and we were suppose to hang out , but the day before he did not answer my text's or anything and the next day apologized because he was ''too busy'' and said sorry it was his fault. So , we decided again to pick a day and we did. So , he told me to call him the next day and I did. I texted him and called him and no answer the day again before we hanged out. And we haven't hung out. Is this guy playing me? because it seems it and I am not ready to get heart broken again.


Thank you ,
Dianna

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Virgos?


Posted Sunday September 19 2010, 6:54 pm

Are virgos good kissers? im just wondering cuz i havent had my first kiss and im 15 anyways im jw

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broken promises :/


Posted Sunday September 19 2010, 12:54 pm

I don't want anyone to say anything about my age or being young because i really dont think it's relevant .
When i started year9 age 14 (or 9th grade) i started speaking to a boy who was in year 11. (age 16) . he was really nice and we soon became good friends . everntualy after a lot of drama with one of my friends, we started going out
i was really happy and we had such a good relationship, everyone commented on how well we suited.
we lost our virginity to each other and were happy for so long
He promised me we would be together well after he finishes college and have a great life together
I cant even begin to say how many times he made promises like this
Im so in love with him but now hes just...

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