|
And once again I want the guy I cant have.
This is going to be my failed attempt at keeping this short and simple.
I ALWAYS fall for the guys I can't have. This time I think I've effed up majorly. I was going out with the nicest, sweetest guy ever. He really reaaallllyyy liked me. But I think I kind of freaked out and I ended it. I think he's finally over me and NOW I want him! I try to talk to him and stuff but he rejects it. I don't know if he's just super busy or if he's snobbing me off on purpose.
I've come to the conclusion that the only reason I'm starting to like him now is because I can't have him.
My mum gave me a really hard time when I broke up with him, saying stuff like I finally found a nice guy and I broke up with him because I'd much rather have some jerk who'll play with my heart and fuck me over in the end.
And her speech has only just now hit me and I think that's why I'm starting to like him. I've figured out that he's the 'safe' option and I'm starting to think that if I keep falling for the 'bad boy' type then I'm probably going to end up either alone or living in a tailor park with some loser.
I really don't know what to do :(
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Hey,
okay i have been in this position soooo mannny times! I ended up getting the guy cause i told him exactly how i felt! I know its kind of embarrassing to tell him but it is the BEST thing! it really does work! & at that point you will know if he is busy or he is rejecting you! tell him that you messed up and stuff like that! & if he doesnt want to be with you then move on to the next!
just tell him how you feel! that is always the best thing!
hope i helped!, goooood luck!
]
I usually like girls i can't have. Why? Because not being able to have that person makes you want it more. Just like with little kids they want a toy and ask for it and its a no they will keep asking and begging because they can't have it so it appeals more to them. Just try acting nice to this guy, treat him with respect and if its meant to be he'll come around. In the mean time meet new guys and people.
]
More Questions: |