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So i was with my boyfriend the other day..and the topic came up, and he basically said that he thinks vaginas are unattractive. I thought guys liked...looking at that? I mean he didn't mean specifically mine, he just meant in general. I was kind of offended and now I'm really self conscious about it. Is that normal for a guy to say he doesnt like the way they look or whatever? (and no he isnt gay). Guys opinions would be good. Can anyone give me some insight please??
Thank you!
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Dude. Genitalia in general is ugly. Or alien. Or whatever.
Breasts are way better looking than vagina's ever will be. (seriously, think about it, strippers don't wear tops, but they wear panties. Why? Vagina's...are...kinda weird.)
Its even more weird for guys because they don't have a vagina, so it's even more foreign.
It's pretty normal for a guy not to like they way they look, but it's all the fun you can have with them that makes them so damn attractive ;) haha
There is no need to feel self conscious or offended or anything.
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Hey there,
I would say, it is alright if he thinks vaginas are unattractive at first. It is simular to a girl thinking a penis is unattractive at first. Maybe he just isn't that comfortable around them... so if you talk about it a bit more and gradually make him more willing to like them, then he should. I'd think a guy would find a vagina strange since they've had a penis all their life :p
He just has to get used to the unusual, by the sounds of it. Let him know what he said made you feel uncomfortable and then ask him if he will be a little supportive. It is okay if he thinks they are unattractive, but if he doesn't want to go near one... then help him realize what he is missing. Have him list some good things about vaginas and if he can't think of any, compare a vagina to a penis. There are things they have in common (Head of the penis and the clitoris for example). I know it sounds crazy, but once he realizes there are simularities, he should start to change his mind <3
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He's probably gay.
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