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He doesn't want me hanging out with other guys?
Everytime my boyfriend sees something that a guy posted on my facebook, he freaks out. I want him to be able to talk to me without freaking out "/ he doesn't trust me around any guys but he's aloud to be around girls. It's like then why can't I do it? He just fights bout everything single thing I do. I only hang with 2 or 3 females & the rest are guys. I mean, I'm not gonna change my group of friends just for him. I really need help with this one. I'm 18 & a girll.
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You guys need to break up. He is controlling, and he is setting some serious double standards. He can hang out with girls, but you can't hang out with guys? What kind of bullshit is that?
Boyfriends come & go, friends are forever. That right there is enough. Leave him. You can do better.
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Any time you find yourself saying "he doesn't trust me around other guys and freaks out when I'm around them" it's time to break up.
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My warning flags went right up on this one.
He is possessive and jealous and mistrustful, not to mention controlling. If you stick around, those behaviours will only get worse.
The moment a guy tries to dictate who you are and are not allowed to hang around, they're overstepping their boundaries in a huge way.
Why should you be worried? Because this is how a lot of abusive (emotionally or otherwise) men get their start. They see that they can control their partner, so they see how far they can push it.
Give him an ultimatum: either he puts on his big boy pants and accepts that you will spend time with whomever you like, or you will leave him so that you can do as you choose. You can't live under someone else's thumb.
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Hi,
I have some experience with this so I know what your going through. What I would do is just talk to him let him know how you feel. If he really does trust you he wouldn't act that way, and trust to me is very important in a relationship. And your right you shouldn't change the group of people you hang out with and if he can't accept it, he's just not worth it.
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