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is it okay to hang out with his friend and his girl friend?
so this guy (justin) and I were together for about a year. we were each other's first love. its been about a year or more that we haven't talked. I went to a party and ended up meeting one of his close friends(josh). Josh ends up wanting to hang out the next weekend, and tells me that Justin wants to come with his girl friend. Its really hard to get over your first love, and i still love justin. I want to go and hang out because it would be fun, but i'm really nervous because i might get a little jealous of the girl...but i don't really know what to do. what do you guys think about the situation? thanks for your feedback
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You should not date you exes friend. There will always be bumping of heads with you and your ex, therefore always uncomfortable moments. This can cause trust issues between you and Josh and it is just not a good out look. You just admitted you still love Justin, so youre asking for trouble if you decide to date Josh. Don't test yourself, and put yourself in uncomfortable situations.
And if you are thinking of getting Justin back, I dont think that is a good idea either, Justin will never trust if you were thinking about dating his friend.
you know where you're heart is, work on that first and when you are really over Justin and ready to date again, find someone wayyyyyy out of his circle.
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It's always hard to see your ex with someone else. No matter how the relationship ended and how long it's been there's always gonna be something there that's gonna make it uncomfortable, that's life. But sooner or later you're gonna have to get over that. I understand it's hard and yes, it's probably going to be awkward for a while but if you ever want to be friends with him again, or at least be on civil ground with him you're gonna have to meet up with him. This is a great opportunity for you to reconnect with him in a friendly manner and prove that you're fine without him. And just in case things get weird you can leave or take a break with your friend. Jealousy is a part of human nature and it's always going to be there no matter what. If you do end up getting jealous just fight it down and remind yourself that if you really do love him then you want him to be happy. If she makes him happy then so be it. Be the bigger person. It's not always easy but it ends up for the better. Plus, you and your friend might even hit it off and who know, maybe it'll lead to something better! Hope this helps and good luck! :)
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