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Question re: manipulative guy I'm dating
Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 2:21 am
So I've been dating this guy (I'm 27 he's 30) since the June and he's moving pretty fast, even says I love you. He basically told me that it was over if I didn't want to commit to him but the reason I don't want to commit was because I'm moving in Jan and don't want to go through a break-up. He's not okay with it not being official so the other day I made it official. (He's even told me I need counseling bc I have trust issues.) He was in Vegas this weekend and we texted but when I called he didn't pick up or call me back. I feel like he's been acting strange and I asked him if it was over. He said I was nuts because we just became a couple and I told him how he hasn't even called me back. He said I was annoying him with all this drama...
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Whats he thinking about this?!
Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 1:35 am
20f. joe -18, almost 19
this might be long but i know this will bug me so i need an outsiders perspective and i will return the favor!
so I've been friends with joe for about 5 years now, we call each other best friend. we use to be really close but we started fading within the last yr, i've always had feelings for him and i still hate texting him first, etc. he graduated high school and moved 4hrs away to go play hockey beginning of sept. since he is really good. i haven't seen him since end of july. i said i wanted to do a road trip and go watch him play sometime this yr. we weren't friends on facebook and he adds me two nights ago. i accept him and write: joseph how were we not friends on here? i hope everything\'s ...
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How to end it, without breaking his heart.
Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 1:19 am
I've been dating my current boyfriend for over a year now, annd I love the kid to death, but lately I seem to have lost a lot of my feelings towards him. And we were planning on breaking up in a few months anyways when we both go away to school, but I feel if I wait that long, its not fair to him, because I'm not fully in the relationship.. I just need some advice on how to break things off with him without completly breaking his heart, because he gets fairly attached when hes in a relationship, so the easiest way to do it would be best. -17/female.
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How to tell a guy u like him without pushing it
Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 9:57 pm
i really need help
how do i tell a guy i like him without sonuding pushy or nervous
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Dont know how to answer a question!!!!!
Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 9:52 pm
Ok so our school dance is coming up and this really sweet guy asked me out to the dance. I wanna say yes but I am afraid everyone will make fun of me. HELP!
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Awkward in person
Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 9:01 pm
Okay so I know that whole "it's only awkward if you make it awkward" phrase will probably apply here, but anyhow: I have a crush on a guy in my class. I'm 99% sure that he likes me back (he constantly stares at me and does all that body language stuff). But the problem here is that I never really get a chance to talk to him. I say little more than "hi" to him everyday, somethings a few sentences if I'm lucky. But online I've talked to him for hours. I'm afraid that I'm getting into the bad habit of not talking to him in person and that it might become awkward? We're going to the same party next week and I want to know how to talk to him without being all weird. He always makes me feel nervous at first, but when we start ...
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Bipolar relationship
Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 12:01 am
Ive known this guy, ill call him ricky, for about five months and we hit it off really good. About a month ago we realized we like each other so we started talking. We hung out almost everyday and things were great. He introduced me to his family, I introduced him to mine. Now let me tell you about April. April doesn't like Ricky because she gets a "bad vibe" from him. Rocky isn't the greatest person but I know everything about him, April just assumes things. Well ricky doesn't like April because she always tries to argue with him. I recently started hanging out with April and my relationship/friendship with Ricky is falling apart fast. I'm not sure what to do anymore. He called me a couple of days ago and told me how he thinks I'...
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Is it okay to date my friends ex?
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 8:43 pm
I've known this kid since 5th grade and i used to have a huge crush on him. But now we're in 11th grade and we actually hang out, he lives a few blocks away and he walks to meet me all the time. I slept at my friends house one night and slept in his arms, I always sit on his lap even though theres an open seat next to us, and sometimes we'll hold hands across intersections (like we're 5 years old, but its cute :) lol) The night i fell asleep in his arms, we talked for 6 1/2 hours straight about anything, and we weren't even bored. Our conversations were always interesting, and we dont even have to be kissing or anything, we can just hang out, cause we havent even kissed yet.
He recently told one of my good friends that he lik...
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Posted Monday September 27 2010, 6:32 pm
So my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost a year know and before now she had hung out with me a ton like almost everyday possible. I'm not saying thats all we did, we definately had some free time and hung out with our bros or girls. but just now she didn't hang out with me this whole week and like was like i'm just out don't worry. Then she called me and told me that she was hanging with these dudes who have been like wanting to hookup with her for like ever.. and i was like its whatever and she was like "well i mean i didn't want you to get upset cause i know you know that they think i'm really hott and stuff.. it was just so much fun like i felt so special cause they like just talked about how attractive i was and how they ...
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Boy on my mind
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 1:15 pm
Hi heres my problem:
theres this boy i really like and i've had a crush on him for 4 and a half years now (i'm 18) its not even a crush anymore it feels like im in love with him. Basically i know his email address on you know hotmail msn but he doesn't know who i am and i don't want to add him as it will be like i add randoms so i want him to kind of find me because i don't want it to be a msn relationship how can i get him to add me? please help all answers are kindly appreciated thanks in advance xx
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ROMANCE?
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 11:45 am
okay, so i'm 19 and male. I have a woman who i have been with for a year and i don't think i have ever done anything romantic this whole year. The only thing i have done that i would consider romantic is one day we were at the park and it started raining. I swept her off her feet and while she lay in my arms, i kissed her. She said that was the best kiss she ever had. I want to be romantic or atleast something romantic. I could really use your help. Thanks in advance.
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What is going on with guys these days?
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 11:08 am
16/f
I really don't know what's going on.Have all the boys gone blind?I am sick and tired of being alone.And no guy notices me or if he does it's usually a jerk.I've become a jerk magnet.I don't see why it's like this.I am good-looking and smart,I think I should attract good-looking guys...not just that but every guy I've been with ended up cheating on me with an UGLY girl.When I say ugly I mean it.I am not cocky,I just love myself.So don't tell me I'm arrogant.I am also very friendly and approachable,but love just seems to avoid me.I see my girl friends around,happy with their boyfriends in long relationships and I just can't seem to find a good guy for myself.I want a guy who treats me sweet and loving.On the contrary,I got all but...
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What can this dream mean
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 9:49 am
My boyfriend is locked up and is suppose to get out on the 26. The night before i had a dream that some one was saying he is getting out at ten, well my bf didnt get out on the 26 and the day after i had the same dream, what could this possibly mean
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how do i give my guy friend a boner .and how do they get them ,dose it hert
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 3:56 am
how do i give my guy friend a boner ,how do boys get then,can u feel it coming ,and dose boners hert
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Feel disappointed and hurt?
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 2:14 am
I like this guy and I've known him for a while, but I noticed him recently, everything seems to be okay, but one day I saw a picture of him him putting his arm around this girl in the car and now I'm discouraged by it and feel hurt. What should I do about this? He's not a flirt. I rarely get jealous but here I am.
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girlfriend issues about my dreams and goals
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 12:22 am
Hi I have been lost on what to do about how my girlfriend of 1 yr and 7 months doesn't approve of what my goals and dreams for my life are. I am a junior in college about to be 21 and I play golf and want to be a head golf professional at a golf course or even try to make it on tour but my girlfriend trys to tell me how i need to come up with a new dream and goal because she thinks I will never be home. I have played golf and had these dreams ever since I could walk. I am in love with her and don't want to lose her. She also trys to say that if I keep playing golf she will break up with me and it so happens that she does this the night or couple days before i have a tournament which i then can't play to my full potentional. What is the best thing to do?
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just wondering.
Posted Sunday September 26 2010, 8:29 pm
i think guys with an arched eyebrow are really hot lol am i alone here or do any of you chicks think so too? just curious.
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boy trouble
Posted Sunday September 26 2010, 2:35 pm
Hi 8)
ok i have a huge problem and its been on my mind for ages basically theres this boy i really like but he doesnt know me. he doesnt even know i exist. i see him sometimes but he hasnt ever seen me. ive had a crush on him for 5 and a half years now and i really want to meet him i hardly ever see him now only sometimes, and im always with parents when i do see him. i think im in love please help i need to find a way to speak to him, hes been on my mind a lot lately and i cant eat, think or study please help
thanks in advance (im 19)
xxx
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Boy i need to meet
Posted Sunday September 26 2010, 2:30 pm
Hi 8)
ok i have a huge problem and its been on my mind for ages basically theres this boy i really like but he doesnt know me. he doesnt even know i exist. i see him sometimes but he hasnt ever seen me. ive had a crush on him for 5 and a half years now and i really want to meet him i hardly ever see him now only sometimes, and im always with parents when i do see him. i think im in love please help i need to find a way to speak to him, hes been on my mind a lot lately and i cant eat, think or study please help
thanks everyone in advance (im 19)
xxx
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moving on, how to?
Posted Sunday September 26 2010, 11:07 am
so about four months ago my ex broke up with me and recently i found out that its over for good.
i want to move on with my life. i know ill never be able to forget what happened but i dated the kid for eight months and he was there through an important time in my life.
so i was just wondering, what are some ways that i can move on?
what sucks is that i didnt get any closure. he broke up with me over the phone and that sucks cause its not like i could totally give my goodbye.
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