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So my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost a year know and before now she had hung out with me a ton like almost everyday possible. I'm not saying thats all we did, we definately had some free time and hung out with our bros or girls. but just now she didn't hang out with me this whole week and like was like i'm just out don't worry. Then she called me and told me that she was hanging with these dudes who have been like wanting to hookup with her for like ever.. and i was like its whatever and she was like "well i mean i didn't want you to get upset cause i know you know that they think i'm really hott and stuff.. it was just so much fun like i felt so special cause they like just talked about how attractive i was and how they were obsessed with me! i know it sounds weird but i wanna hang with them a lot more i'm sorry if it interferes with us but like they make me feel so wanted.." like i feel like scared and what not like i dunnoo.. am i overreactinggg i feel like they are going to like take her and stuff...
I probably sound like messed up or something but it's been worryinggg.. Thank you
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Dump her.
The girl just wants attention. She left you hanging and spent time with guys she knows would hurt your feelings. She knew the guys want to be sexual with her. She knows you were probably going to be bothered by the fact that she was with them and not you. She made a point of saying they make her feel special. That means she only wants attention.
Dump her and find a girl that can be true, honest, and faithful to you. It's fine to hang out with other people. It's not fine to completely ignore your partner for an entire week and then suddenly call and say, "Oh, I'm hanging out with these guys that totally want to have sex with me! I feel so special!" It's rubbing it in your face.
Find a girl that is better for you. She just isn't the one after all. That's a part of dating and a part of life. You date so you can find someone who is a good match for you in the long-term. This girl isn't. She needs to grow up and be more mature about this whole situation. The world does not revolve around her and she can't swing your emotions around just because she wants some extra drama and attention.
You better off without her. Call her up, dump her, and then go hang out with the girls who think YOU'RE hot.
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