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what is this girl's problem?
19/f. i can't believe im sitting here complaining about this. but anyways i was friends with a girl. let's call her Jane. Jane and i worked together, and we had a math class semester. we hung out for a while and i told her a few embarrassing secrets about me. Well anyways she was rude to me sometimes and i was too and it kind of hurt so i told her and she said she was joking and she didn't mean to hurt me. well anyways Jane and i spent two weekends in a row. then she had to go to San Antonio so we didn't hangout that weekend. the next weekend i asked her if she wanted to hangout but she said her mom took her phone, so i said okay. Then i got a text from her phone saying why don't you go to Dairy Queen and buy a hamburger. And i had told her about this boy i met there and went on a date with and we hooked up, and then she started talking to him on facebook because she wanted to see who he was, so i was like fine, and she became friends with him. and that text was a reference to me being skinny obviously. I asked her about that text and she told me that Fred did it. She said he took her phone and was texting people. I was mad but then i got over it. I felt stupid though for telling her my secrets. then i asked her like maybe a few weeks later if she wanted to hangout and she said she doesn't know what she's doing. but then i saw her facebook status and some girl asked her if she wanted to hangout on Friday and she said yes. now i had a problem with this for a while but then i said whatever they're other people out there and we hung out a lot anyways. so Jane has this gay friend she hung out with a lot. At school he saw me and said oh hey your Jane's friend and i was like yeah and felt awkward, because i hadn't talked to them in so long, and i was mad because i remembered that text he sent. I wasn't sure if it was him, but anyways today Fred saw me again and Jane was with him and he said really loudly hey Jane look it's your best friend and she turned around and i was like hey and i felt weird and Jane just started laughing in my face. and i was so embarrassed i walked away and she was like um okay? and i heard her saying something but fred was like shh. so i don't know what her problem is. i mean i hadn't seen her in so long and when she saw me she was so rude. i mean she had no reason to be. so why would she do that? i mean she had no reason what so ever.
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well its obvious that jane is telling all your secrets to her other friends and quite frankly i hate to say it but she takes you for a joke because if she laughs with fred in your face i wouldn't really call that a friend try to stay away from her just ignore her and if doesn't help then its best that you give her a piece of your mind some people are as cruel as her but don't worry every dog has it's day
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Well it's kinda hard to tell about her but if you're unsure that she is trustworthy or saying things behind your back then you should talk to her. If she tells you it was a misunderstanding then see where it goes from there. I mean us girls usually jump to conclusions on about pretty much everything so who knows what really happened. So talk to her. If she told you it was a misunderstanding but still acted the same, ect. Then she isn't a really good friend. I mean you could either just stop being her friend or just have her as a friend but not as close as you used to be and not spilling all your secrets to her. So I hope everything works out!
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sorry but if thats a friend id hate to see what an enemy is. drop her and dont tell her anymore stuff cause she might end up using it againist you in the long run and she might tell some people that you dont want knowing your information. if anything she'll need you beofre you need her. as for the guy you like tell him to ignore her cause he might be what shes after, dont let her take your man. good luck
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