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moving on, how to?


Question Posted Sunday September 26 2010, 11:07 am

so about four months ago my ex broke up with me and recently i found out that its over for good.

i want to move on with my life. i know ill never be able to forget what happened but i dated the kid for eight months and he was there through an important time in my life.

so i was just wondering, what are some ways that i can move on?
what sucks is that i didnt get any closure. he broke up with me over the phone and that sucks cause its not like i could totally give my goodbye.


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Kindrd answered Monday September 27 2010, 11:56 am:
First off, nothing is going to make it better unless you are ready for things to be better. Some people give you the fish in the sea crap but someone that is truly in love aren't interested in the other fish. It seems to me like you really loved him. Talk to people. My girl...god bless her heart..Left me right before our anniversary. I was torn up for a week. I talked to all my family and tried to figure out what i could do to convince her to take me back. after a week she did but in that week i had feelings that i didn't even know that i had. If you are ready for things to get better than do activities to get your mind off of it. Find a group of friends to hang out with. Do anything. Then, time will heal your wounds. Hope this helps.

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crazytoad30 answered Sunday September 26 2010, 8:33 pm:
it just takes time, lots of comfort food lol, friends and an even better guy:) it took me over a year to get over this one guy and im so much happier without him now. good luck(: anymore questions, feel free to ask me.

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Rene5009 answered Sunday September 26 2010, 7:08 pm:
I know how you feel i was with a guy for two and a half years..he broke up with me 4 months ago..he broke up with me in like 5 secs.. -.-..weener..anyway..what I did was first let out all the tears and what really helped me was I was lucky enough to have a really good friend to listen and help me through that tough time :)..i also did things to vent my anger and sadness..for me i drew a lot..also its nice to go out and have some fun to try to clear your mind and remember that person isn't the only person who was in your life, you have other people who love you and support you remember that..stay strong and try your best to move on..in time you'll heal and get over that person..if you want someone to talk to I'd be happy to listen also ^^ I hope this helped try some of the things i did it might help :) good luck!

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