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17 with a Marine
Posted Monday October 25 2010, 8:11 am
Ok, so the story is that I live on a military base because of my dad. While I'm out here, I met a marine that I like a lot, and he likes me. Unfortunately, it's not exactly...allowed for us to be together. He's not the kind that is only interested in me for sex, especially since he hasn't gotten any and it's been two months. But since it's against the rules, he refuses to ask me to be his girlfriend, even if we keep it secret. He says it's so that if people ask me if I'm with him, I can honestly say "no." At least for the next two months, which is when I turn 18. I want him to be mine, which he says he is, and I believe him, but that title is important to me. Should I tell him that it's either all or nothing? Or that I should wait...
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Whats my problem with guys?
Posted Monday October 25 2010, 1:31 am
20F.
I seem to have the worst luck with guys. When I meet a guy that I think will work out for once, we hang out for a couple weeks and then things just basically die. Like neither of us will text or call each other and then basically that's the end of it. I think it may be because I never text the guys, so maybe then they just feel like I'm not interested? But don't you think it goes both ways, they could text me too? Do guys text or call girls first? It seems as though the guys I always like don't ..does this mean there not good guys? I just always feel annoying texting or calling guys first I probably shouldn't feel that way? Maybe I don't make an effort, but I feel like they don't either. I don't know any suggestions, thi...
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Aqe Isz Nothinq But A Number?
Posted Sunday October 24 2010, 9:18 pm
Yes, I know I'm stupid, Yes, I know it's illegal but I don't care!
I been talking to Gio, Hes 19, I'm 14.
When my sister was 15 she was dating an 18 year old. My mom gave her an okay for it. But one night my dad caught him in her room. So he called the cops. He had no idea my mom gave her an okay. So when a cop came, He talked to the guy and talked to my sister and they couldn't do anything because my sister wouldn't say if they had sex or not and because my mom said it was okay for them to be together!
So nothing happenedd.
Now i'm in the position where I'm messing with a 19 year old.
He thinks he could get in trouble for being with me though!
i want to convince him that he can't get in trouble. ...
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Did he get a Boner ?
Posted Sunday October 24 2010, 4:56 pm
Oki doki I was with my boy friend and i was standing close to him and we were kissing and I felt something hard ... except when i looked down i couldnt really see anything so maybe he got hard a little but i dont know
what do you think ?
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how to stop feelign ashamed
Posted Sunday October 24 2010, 4:24 pm
i have been getting drunk and "sluttying" it out for a week and i really didnt know my limits. i thought it was all fun and no consequenes.
the other night i got drunk and ended up getting with this boy who has a very serious girlfriend.
it was mutual no one forced the other one, then midway thorugh our hookup his friends came in a stopped it becasue they knew hed regrett it and everything.
and i ran out covering my fave shamefully.
i woke up the next mornign feelign awful.
my friend bumped into the boy and boy was so mean. said make sure she doesnt tell a soul no one oculd ifnd out. she forced herself on me. i didnt enjoy it etc.
i am so mordified and i just feel so ashamed.
i am ...
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Why can't one just ask me out?
Posted Sunday October 24 2010, 3:44 pm
OK sorry if its long.OK so i was at band camp the last few day.And we were trying to get my ex to ask out my friends.Well that backfired when he told my friend he was gonna ask me out.Then i was sitting on the couches with one of my crushes he said "so do you wanna go out with"then my ex runs up and says "watcha guys doin" Then while at the fundraiser my other crush kept taking my flag playing around begging me to play cymbols so i could stand next to him.So I am really confused who likes me?Who is gonna ask first?How do i let some down gentle,but wait for the right one to ask?
THNX IN ADVANCE
TINK2359
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Is a long distance relationship with a clingy girlfriend worth it?.
Posted Sunday October 24 2010, 2:18 pm
I have been with a long distance girlfriend for 9 months. I really love her but, she seems to be too clingy. She expects me to talk to her 24/7 and if i don't, even for less than an hour, she will flip out and not wanna talk to me for the rest of the day/night. She will talk to me again the next day though so its alright i guess. She doesn't have any trust in what i do, because she found out i lied to her about a small thing to go out and that's the problem. I'm trapped in my house, with no time to go out with friends, or even go out just by myself. She keeps me stuck in my room, and i barely even see her. If she was with me every second i would be okay. I'm sick of just staying home alone all day and not getting to do what i love to do. I ...
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is he being honest?
Posted Sunday October 24 2010, 10:55 am
so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about three months and on friday he tells me that he's going out with friends for the weekend so he thinks something is gonna happen( meaning he might mess around with another chick) and he says if anything happens he will be honest with me about it so i'm like wtf is he being honest saying he cares or is he just taking me for granted
please help
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How can you prove to someone you love them?
Posted Sunday October 24 2010, 3:06 am
I want to really show my girlfriend that I love her a whole lot. I always tell her I love her but I want to prove it. What are some great ways to show my girlfriend who much I really care for her and love her? I want her to know that I completely and totally love her with every cell in my body. How can I prove that love to her? All idea are accepted and appreciated.
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life
Posted Sunday October 24 2010, 2:34 am
hello im a 17 male and today was me n my girlfriends 6 month aniversery and i was going to go hang out with her but instead i went and hung out with my friend and i met this other girl and i ended up cheating on my girlfriend not anything serious just a few kisses but now i like this other girl alot and confused about what to do and who to go with
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Is it fair to be mad at your girlfriend if she hangs out with other guys?
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 11:24 pm
My girlfriend is really pretty and we've been dating for 4 months. Before we started actually dating she told me about her passed and that she's hooked up with a lot of guys. She told me that it was "more than a dozen" guys she's had sex with before. I love her though and I told her it didn't matter and I loved her anyways. Well, lately she is been hanging out with these groups of guys. I know for a fact she's had sex with some of the guys more than once because she told me that before. I told her that it hurt me she was spending time with these guys that used her and she told me that it makes her happy to be able to spend time with these guys. I'm really actually getting mad because I'm hurt by all this and she doesn't understand...
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Where to meet guys..:(
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 11:16 pm
I'm 18 and so are my friends & we have no idea where to meet guys. We do t like the guys in our high school and we want to meet new guys.. Where can we meet them, how do we approachthem?
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i REALLY like him!!!
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 10:05 pm
me: 13/f in 8th grade
him:?/m in 7th grade
ok so at my school we have this time to howl this that every other wednesday after 7th period we go to another class and make up tests or study or just stay in ur 7th period class. and thats what i alwayus do. so theres this kid kenny who goes there 2. hes in 7th grade but i dont mind the age diff. but he was flirting and then he asked me oout that night on facebook. but i had to say no because i had a boyfriend this year and i broke up with him because he was touching other girls butts in front of me and ya i dont like tat. but my parents think i made a mistake by breakin gup with him. so i really like kenny and i asked my parents if i could go out with him and they said sho...
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Pregnant and so miserable and ignored by boyfriend
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 7:43 pm
I live with my bf of 2 yrs and i am 8 months pregnant. He has totally ignored me for the past few months. He does not help me or has bought the baby anything. I feel so sad I do not know how to fix the problem. He wanted a baby and begged me for one. Now that he is acting like this I am so mad. I wish I could fix this problem. I am 30 and he is 39. I thought with his age he would be more mature. I do not know if I should stay and somehow fix the problem or just leave him.
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What changed in your relationship after the first year?
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 3:29 pm
I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. I've never been with a guy this long, so I was wondering what kind of changes are normal when you've been with someone this long. It seems like the romantic and honeymoon stage is over. He doesn't say most of the sweet things he used to. He doesn't tell text me good night or good morning like before, or even text me very often. Is that normal? He used to talk about us being together in the future..like kids and a house. And he used to say how he wished we could live together and that he wants to spend all his time with me. But he doesnt tell me any of this anymore. Is this normal? What kinds of things changed in your relationship after a year? Thanks.
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I really want a boyfriend, but as soon as I get close to a guy...
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 1:07 pm
17/f
So, i really want a boyfriend. I finally found this guy that i like and he likes me too. He's nice, cute, and is very sweet. The only thing is, everytime i start getting close to someone, i start finding things wrong with them. I get scared to hang out with them and always find exuses to not hang out with them. Idk why and its bugging me. I feel like i cant invite them to my house because its boring and there will be nothing to do. We cant go in my room so my parents will be watching us the whole time and its just awkward. Please help. Thank you.
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Haven't talked to him..?
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 11:42 am
I haven't talked to my Boyfriend since Thursday night. And well its Saturday morning... What do I do? How should I react? He is just busy right.?......
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dazed and confused
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 1:08 am
Ok ths is a question for the women .I want to know what a woman thinks about her man .my problem is iv been in a relationship with my fiance for 6 years now and at first our love life was great .now its not so great .its been way over a year now that we haven't made love ,cuddle, or anything to that matter .and I just can't figure it out .I give her everything she could have ever wanted .I'm a hard worker I work 2 jobs to provide her with anything she wants and I'm sure a lot of women whould kill for a man like that .and all I ask in return is to make love from time to time but all I get is the cold shoulder .iv talked to her before about this but I don't get anywhere with her its always an excuse .I'm on the rag or it hurts to have sex .I'...
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I've never kissed a guy. Is something wrong with me?
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 12:29 am
I'm 25 and I've never had my first kiss with a guy yet. It never did bother me until recently when my friend found out and she was pretty shocked. I'm a pretty girl and take care of my body but I guess I'm just not a "people person" and haven't seriously dated or been seriously interested in someone. Is something wrong with me?
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Why is my girlfriend so shy around me? How can I get her to relax around me?
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 12:28 am
I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and she's so shy around me. I think it's adorable but at the same time I know she isn't comfortable and that makes me unhappy. Why would she be so incredibly shy and how can I get my girlfriend to loosen up and relax while she's around me? I want to know the real her, inside and out, and it seems like her being overly shy is causing a barrier between us. How can I get her to just relax? Why is it like this?
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