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Pregnant and so miserable and ignored by boyfriend
I live with my bf of 2 yrs and i am 8 months pregnant. He has totally ignored me for the past few months. He does not help me or has bought the baby anything. I feel so sad I do not know how to fix the problem. He wanted a baby and begged me for one. Now that he is acting like this I am so mad. I wish I could fix this problem. I am 30 and he is 39. I thought with his age he would be more mature. I do not know if I should stay and somehow fix the problem or just leave him.
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I suggest you hang tight, as long as he is NOT abusive. Get his name on the birth certificate. If he does not get with the program, leave him, and hit him up for child support.
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guys often tend to get like that when girls are pregnant but just wait until th baby comes along he will immediately fall in love with the child it probably just hasn't really sunken in yet that he's going to be a dad just speak to him about you two doing something fun in the meanwhile because once the baby is here you will have no time for each other
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Give him a chance is he a first time father. chances are he is nervous about becoming a father. talk to him about it but dont argue. you really dont need the stress.
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Confront him about it so that he knows how you feel. This is weird behavior from a man whom is supposed to have a baby with you soon. Something is going on here but that doesn't mean he's a cheater but *might* be.
Also, and I hate to mention it are you 100% sure you aren't being touchy or perceiving things incorrectly due to being pregnant and hormones with it. Maybe he's not doing anything wrong but needing to be more attentive. If that's so then tell him why aren't you doing this or that?
If you don't like his explanation you can always tell your parents that you need to get out of this situation and come home as it's not right for you or baby. They can better deal with him when that happens than perhaps you can.
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