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is he being honest?
so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about three months and on friday he tells me that he's going out with friends for the weekend so he thinks something is gonna happen( meaning he might mess around with another chick) and he says if anything happens he will be honest with me about it so i'm like wtf is he being honest saying he cares or is he just taking me for granted
please help
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It sounds like he might cheat on you someday. If he really cares about you he would not put himself in any position that might jeopardize your relationship. And he just blatantly went out and acknowledged that he knows something might happen, which shows that he truly believes he might cheat and wants you to think he is honest about it, which I truly believe that is his tactic of making you think he is honest and truthful, by saying "he will tell you if something happens". When I truly believe if he sleeps with another girl he won't tell you, and his response if you question him will be, " I told you I would tell you the truth if it did happen, baby..." It's a clever tactic to make you feel like he is being truthful. Beware of this guy. He seems like a player. Don't put up with that. You deserve a guy that appreciates what he has and doesn't go out and prepare to cheat on you. Screw him hun, and don't waste anymore time on this loser!
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If he is being honest, he honestly just told you that he is going to cheat someday.
Tell him he doesn't get any bonus points for setting up an escape route just in case he cheats.
If he feels he can't help himself - dump him. People CAN stop themselves from cheating, and it sounds like he just tried to get forgiveness from you BEFORE he did anything wrong. It would be a smart move - if it weren't so stupid.
You need to outline what cheating is, and that he doesn't get a pass just 'cause he told you he might cheat. In fact, him knowing that it's a risk, means he has an even greater responsibility to be faithful.
If he can't be faithful, he can't be in relationship with you.
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if i wer you i wuld brackup hes tacking u for granted
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I'm just gonna be totally blunt here...dump his ass. What a jerk. There is something really wrong with him if he thinks it's okay to tell his girlfriend that he plans on cheating on her. Cheating is not acceptable, much less planning to ahead of time. I'm sure you know that. No excuses should be made for him. It's not okay.
I know it's hard to do, but trust me, you will be so much better off without him. Best of luck.
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He pretty much is saying hey it's been great, but if I can screw some hot girl this weekend I am going for it. You need to call him and tell him he can fool around with whoever he wants because you two aren't together anymore and then stick to it. You deserve someone who actually cares about you, and no matter what he says he doesn't care about you or he wouldn't cheat. Even if he doesn't cheat in you this weekend it's only because he couldn't manage to hook up with someone. You deserve better.
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Wow..he kinda sounds like a jerk. He's telling you he might cheat on you ahead of time. I think he is being honest, but the honesty is about him telling you he's gonna be with you but hook up with other people. I don't think you'd want a guy like that. Find someone better. Good luck!
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Um...Sounds to me like hes planning on cheating on you and is just giving you the heads up. What a dick?
If hes going to say that to you and be like Oh hey well don't worry ill make sure i tell you if i do fool around with some other girl, well...thats just wrong.
Tell him that its wrong..or just break up with him.
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What he really means is "I like you but I still want to have sex with other girls. I'm just letting you know now so when you finally get fed up with my cheating I can remind you that I told you what I was gonna do from the start, and then you'll seem like the crazy one because I never said I'd be faithful"
Dump this guy. He IS being honest with you. He's telling you he's a cheater. Don't waste one more minute on him. You may be missing somebody truly fantastic (and faithful) because you're wasting so much energy on this jerk.
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