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Aqe Isz Nothinq But A Number?
Yes, I know I'm stupid, Yes, I know it's illegal but I don't care!
I been talking to Gio, Hes 19, I'm 14.
When my sister was 15 she was dating an 18 year old. My mom gave her an okay for it. But one night my dad caught him in her room. So he called the cops. He had no idea my mom gave her an okay. So when a cop came, He talked to the guy and talked to my sister and they couldn't do anything because my sister wouldn't say if they had sex or not and because my mom said it was okay for them to be together!
So nothing happenedd.
Now i'm in the position where I'm messing with a 19 year old.
He thinks he could get in trouble for being with me though!
i want to convince him that he can't get in trouble.
When he was telling me all this stuff about how much he likes me and wants to be with me but he cant because he could get in trouble, I just stayed quiet and didnt say anything. But the whole night i was with him i couldn't stop thinking about how he can't get into any kind of trouble if its okay with my parents!
I'm confusedd, Should i explain to him or what?
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Okay you are a very immature,although that does not surprise considering you are 14 years old, but that is besides the point. Having sexual contact with anyone under the age of 18 IS AGAINST THE LAW. He is correct to not want to be involved with you anymore, although he should have drawn that line before having sex with you in the first place, so shame on him for that! Your young little mind might be too cluttered with small insignificant things like boys and school, but this man is 19 years old. He probably has a job, possibly considering college, trying to get out on his own and get his own place if he hasn't already. Those are REAL world problems. And guess what goes along with those real world problems? Making sure that those important things do not get jeopardized. If he is caught having any sexual contact with you, regardless of what your stupid parents say (and shame on them for allowing you at such a young age to have such contact with an older person), then he WILL go to jail for 3 to 5 years and be put on the National Sex Offenders List which will ensure that he will not be able to get a decent paying job or possibly any job for that matter for 20 years or so... So Hmmm... Why don't you look at it from his stand point. Have sex with an immature 14 year old and go to jail for 5 years and be listed as a sex predator and be jobless with no money for 20 years, OR Stop having sex with a 14 year old and find someone over the age of 18 and have a good job and nice place to live...? Wow... That's a tough one.. lol! Grow up and stop posting this stupid question because you WILL get the same answer from everyone. Shame on your parents for allowing you to have sex at such a young age and shame on you for being so selfish and immature that you can't even realize the reprocussions from this kind of nonsense.
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Age IS nothing but a number - until he ends up in jail for statutory rape for 5 years, and then he'll be 24 when he gets out. If age is nothing but a number then I'm sure he'll be more than happy to start his life over again at 24 as a registered sex offender for the rest of his life.
Don't be so selfish.
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No. Dont explain to him. Stop asking questions about this because everyone has already told you that its a bad idea to date someone this old.
Did you ever think that maybe he just doesnt want to date you? That hes making excuses up because your 14 years old and HE knows how wrong that is?
Wait till your old enough to date someone that old. Your in to big of a rush to grow up
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