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dazed and confused
Ok ths is a question for the women .I want to know what a woman thinks about her man .my problem is iv been in a relationship with my fiance for 6 years now and at first our love life was great .now its not so great .its been way over a year now that we haven't made love ,cuddle, or anything to that matter .and I just can't figure it out .I give her everything she could have ever wanted .I'm a hard worker I work 2 jobs to provide her with anything she wants and I'm sure a lot of women whould kill for a man like that .and all I ask in return is to make love from time to time but all I get is the cold shoulder .iv talked to her before about this but I don't get anywhere with her its always an excuse .I'm on the rag or it hurts to have sex .I'm at the wits end ! What do I do .don't I have needs ? I feel rejected and I feel like I'm only here for a paycheck .please anyone out there give me some feed back as to what I should do ,thanks ,,,,,
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I agree with what the other person commented,another thing you could do it woo her...get dressed up,take her out to a romantic dinner buy her flowers,i know you do alot but try to make her feel beautiful again..make sure its a night shes not on the rag lol
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I understand your frustration and you are right to feel upset and rejected. Its hard to say what is really going through her mind. Perhaps she really does have a medical issue that is dampening her sex drive, or maybe she is depressed, or maybe she is not happy in the relationship anymore. You say you've already tried talking to her, so the way I see it you have two choices 1) you stop wasting her and your time and end the relationship or 2)you talk to her (calmly and reasonably) and tell her you aren't happy and if she wants to stay together you need to seek couple's counseling. You don't say if you feel this is worth sticking out, but I would just like to point out that now is the time to deal with these issues, BEFORE you get married. And, might I add, if you are having this must trouble before marriage, how much worse will it be AFTER? So, it sounds like you have some thinking to do. Whatever you do, do it in peace and not in anger. I wish you luck!
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