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I really want a boyfriend, but as soon as I get close to a guy...
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So, i really want a boyfriend. I finally found this guy that i like and he likes me too. He's nice, cute, and is very sweet. The only thing is, everytime i start getting close to someone, i start finding things wrong with them. I get scared to hang out with them and always find exuses to not hang out with them. Idk why and its bugging me. I feel like i cant invite them to my house because its boring and there will be nothing to do. We cant go in my room so my parents will be watching us the whole time and its just awkward. Please help. Thank you.
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Everybody has their flaws. If you really like this guy, isn't he worth the risk ? Take a chance, at least you'll know. Instead, of wondering what if...
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First thing first, he likes you! He wants to hang out with you no matter what you're doing, so you don't have to worry about him being bored. This is the most awkward part of the process, it's bound to be uncomfortable. Once you get through this stage, you'll feel more comfortable, I promise. Why don't you ask him to go to the movies or for a walk? That way there won't be so much pressure on you and it will take away some of the awkwardness. Whatever you do, don't make excuses not to hang out with him, he could be a really great guy and you might miss out on that if you push him away. Just hang tight! Things will get easier soon enough and in the meantime, go for easier things like hanging out with a group or doing homework together. Good luck!
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