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Bullying please help


Question Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 3:23 pm

Ever since I was little , these group of guys have been bullying me , and it came to a conclusion they disgraced my family , friends , they paintballed my house , they egged it , tried to throw stuff at it , and this was 2-3 years and still going on. Ever since an indicent happened at school because me and my friend got suspended because my friend was drunk and I tried to help her and so every day they go up to us and its all the guys in our grade and call us sluts alcholics and so on , today I went on a walk with my friend and there was a car and they said sluts so i go over to the car again and i tell them to shut the fack up and mature a bit and not hide and first you go and call us and then hide and they kept calling us greasy dirty fat ugly hors sluts skanks hoes black something and they stopped and they reversed like they wanted to run us over and i was like i will call the cops on you hes like go ahead and they drove off and the guy is like shut the fck up your ugly and this happens constantly
i really want this to end i know i shouldn't ave said it again , but i really dont know what to do i want it to stop , can i charge them? do i tell someone?


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JasmineandSydney answered Saturday October 23 2010, 9:28 pm:
This is serious, and you need to tell someone. You can press charges, and you need to as soon as possible. These guys need to stop, and charging them might be the only way to stop it.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Saturday October 23 2010, 9:08 pm:
you need to go to the police and your school. bullying is and needs to be taking serious now a days it really emotionally hurts people and makes them depressed. if the police or no one does anything to help you go to the media.. i would use that if only no one helps you tell them that you want help with and your problem that you and your friend are constantly bullying you and it makes you depressed you just want them to leave you alone.

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solidadvice4teens answered Saturday October 23 2010, 8:04 pm:
I wish you would dump one of them on their behind. It seems to be the only thing that would work. Forget the schools helping. If it's off their property or even on it they don't care.

You would always get the "you must be doing something" to provoke it line. Obviously, your parents know what is happening.

That's good. What they and you need to do is write down the dates, aprox. time this happens, what was said etc and take it to the police. Charge them with harassment for incidents in public, by telephone and Internet if they do it online too.

At the same time charge them with the vandalism of your home as they will have a record for having done it. Mention the egging, throwing that still goes on etc. etc. The cops may ask why you waited so long re: prior incidents at the house. Tell them you figured it out recently as they just continued and continued.

Once you do that you can bet they will never bother you and or your family again. If they tried they would be in a lot of shit with the cops and rightly so. Get your parents and yourself to file a complaint with police.

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