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Whats my problem with guys?
20F.
I seem to have the worst luck with guys. When I meet a guy that I think will work out for once, we hang out for a couple weeks and then things just basically die. Like neither of us will text or call each other and then basically that's the end of it. I think it may be because I never text the guys, so maybe then they just feel like I'm not interested? But don't you think it goes both ways, they could text me too? Do guys text or call girls first? It seems as though the guys I always like don't ..does this mean there not good guys? I just always feel annoying texting or calling guys first I probably shouldn't feel that way? Maybe I don't make an effort, but I feel like they don't either. I don't know any suggestions, this has happened with the past 3 guys. I'm a pretty girl with a great personality, I know how to keep a convo, I'm not cocky but I am confident in myself, I'm not annoying or clingy. I don't know what my problem is..maybe it is the communication. Any views?
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This is a tough question to answer because there are many reasons why guys don't text or call back. It depends on each individual guy and the situations you were in with them. In general though, I think that after hanging out with a guy you really like, you may want to wait until late afternoon the next day or the day after that to text a guy. That shows that you aren't too eager, but that you are definitely interested. Every guy is different so in regards to them not texting you back, it doesn't mean they aren't interested in you. They may be trying to feel out how you feel about them by playing the waiting game with you too. And all the while, you both are waiting on the other person to text. And when neither of you bite the bullet and go for it, you both assume the other is not interested and move on. Normally I would expect a guy to text me first, but depending on how confident and interested you are in the guy, there is absolutely nothing wrong with texting him first. From there, analyze how the conversation goes. Is he sounding interested, or are his texts short and brief? This is not full proof because some guys just don't like to text or may be busy at the time, but if you are getting short responses like "k, idk, ya..." then I would assume he may not be interested. So from there, stop texting and let the guy make the next move. Also, if you are outgoing and pretty you may intimidate the guys you talk to, so they might be nervous to make the next move. So that is something you should consider also. Hope I helped you and if you have anymore questions about this or anything else feel free to message me :)
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