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stop being the slut


Posted Sunday December 19 2010, 2:20 pm

i have been unintentionally sluttying it out this past month.
i get with a lot of boys who are all close friends and im usually drunk but im so sick of being treated like worthless ass.
i know i sound stupid but to them i prob seem as though i have zero reespect for myself and enough is enough!

how to i change my reputation?
how do i stop being percieved as the slut and start being taken seriously?

i know the first step is too stop drinking and stop gettign with byos obviously...

thanks agian

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Bi-sexual Friend


Posted Sunday December 19 2010, 12:27 pm

Okay so I have this friend and she has told only me and my other close friend that she is bi-sexual. And well...I am kinda bi-sexual (I know you cant really be kinda bi-sexual but sometimes I dont like girls and alot of the time I do but anyway...) and me and the friend that is bi-sexual talked and she said she really liked me and I kinda liker her to. She is coming over either today or tomorrow and I know she wants to kiss me cause she has said it before and I wanted to know like how to flirt and how just to get into the kiss. Like do I just go for it do I give signals till she does it orr....how? Advice would be wonderful,
Thanks :)

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why is my ex so annoyed


Posted Sunday December 19 2010, 4:25 am

My ex boyfriend broke up with me, and immediately said he regretted it however he hasn't done anything about it

I chose not to stay friends n cut him out completely n he's so annoyed about it. He said when you see me you ignore me you don't even say hi. Why is he bothered? And he keeps trying to get me to stay friends with him n I don't know why

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Is there any chance?


Posted Saturday December 18 2010, 11:59 pm

Ok so I like this boy and apperently he knows. My friends decided to message him on Facebook to ask him if he likes me and for his cell number and all of that. Then my friend hacked my account and asked him out for me but i deleted it before he could see it. Then thIs week he commented on my status saying that I was cute. Is there any chance that he likes me after all that?I want to move on but I really do like him...


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i don't think he exists.


Posted Saturday December 18 2010, 1:41 pm

so i've dated alot of guys but i can't seem to find the one i'm looking for. i want a guy thats adventurous and willing to do crazy stuff with me like build snowforts together and go scuba diving and all of that stuff. i feel like no guy is willing to put that much time and effort and i feel like since i'm so picky with guys that i'll be single forever. i don't want to live my life with a boring stone though. i don't want to grow up. i'm adventurous and i want to stay that way. i want to find someone just like me that loves to do those things and isnt lazy. also someone that doesn't just SAY they wanna do it but actually DOES it. i feel like no guy like that exists and i want to give up.

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Is it love or lust?


Posted Saturday December 18 2010, 1:02 pm

Okay, Im 18/f and my boyfriend is 17/m. I've had sex with two guys, and he is still a virgin, because the last girl he was with for a year and a half was saving herself for marriage. We have talked on and off for a few months last year when him and his ex broke up; than they got back together; now we have been together for a month. The chemestry between us is amazing. We have a great connection phyiscally, emotionally, and mentally. Well, I know boys will be boys, and they get horny quite often, just like girls do too. I very rarely get horny. There was an inncident that happened when I was 15 where I almost got raped, if it wasn't for my friend that walked in, and got him off of me, I would have. (I was drunk at the time too) Big mistake....

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If the first time you meet a guy you're crying, does that kill all chances?


Posted Saturday December 18 2010, 10:47 am

of being liked?

Strange I know, but does it? I've heard that guys don't like "baggage". (Which is ridiculous because EVERYONE has issues). Anyway when I met someone I'm kinda interested in, I wasn't really crying per say, (I'd actually just gotten done,) so I still looked upset even though I wasn't.



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so i want to tell people were together


Posted Saturday December 18 2010, 9:19 am

i'm 21 and My boyfriend(24) and i have been together for a while and we have been keeping it secret i want to tell people but i'm scared what they will think. we got together at a really rocky point in our lives and i'm not sure people will except that because of what we went through i love him and am hopeing we can have a long term relationship any advice on what i should do
thanx

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What would you do if your partner left your two children and you?


Posted Saturday December 18 2010, 5:52 am

me and my girl friend just broke up after 7yrs we have 2 kids togther and have been seporated for 6 months but i still love her and tell her so. just the other day she told me she was still so in love with me and dont no why she says shes tryed everything to not be in love with me but she cant what would u say to that u think its just head games she had tears and everything hard to no she lies alot

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He sees me as a huge party girl/hoe and I'm really not!!!


Posted Saturday December 18 2010, 12:55 am

Hey! I'm a sixteen year old girl, sophomore. Okay so over the summer, I went to a party and well the drinks were a little stronger than I thought they would be... And I'm pretty small sooo I got kinda wasted:\... And I normally don't drink. But anyway. I was lacking in judgement and let some guy (junior, 17) he fingered me and that was it. Anyway. That guy... I'm kind if starting to get to know him and I like him... But it's still Awkwardddd... Cause I'm worried he sees me as a huge party girl/hoe and I'm really not!!! But weve never talked about it... What do I do??

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why didnt my bf slow dance with me??


Posted Friday December 17 2010, 10:39 pm

ok so i was at a dance and i asked my bf to slow dance with me and he said "no way".... what is wrong??? everyone else was doing it!!!

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Love sucks :'(


Posted Friday December 17 2010, 7:32 pm

I asked my ex new gf if she love him and she said she really do love him! i cant stop crying because i love him and he love me too but he told me that he broke up with her! now he's locked up so i don't know what to do :'( I said i was going to let him go since she love him because when me and him was going out all these girls try to come between us and i guess i don't want her to feel the same as i did! i dont know what to do! :'(

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infatuated (though there's more to it than that)


Posted Friday December 17 2010, 4:46 pm



This is hard for me to type, so please bear with me. I have a history of very low self esteem, very poor body image, feel ugly and stupid and worthless, a lot of the time. Last year, I re-enrolled in University.(I dropped out, a few years ago). I did pretty well- the University even gave me some money as a prize, because I did well(was in the top five of a year of 400 or so people)

This year, I have found things much more difficult-I have had to struggle to make myself get through tasks, though my grades have been ok. I have also felt old, and very ugly and fat, although I am probably a normal weight. I have met a guy this year, and I have developed feelings like you wouldn't believe. THIS WILL GO NOWHERE. I j...

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How to get a guy to like me


Posted Friday December 17 2010, 4:45 pm

I've had the biggest crush on this one guy for a while and we use to talk bit then all of a sudden we stopped talking. It was wierd but anyways I'm a freshman and he's a sophmore he's in two ofmy classes but I never get the chance to say something. Any advice how to get me into his mind again? Oh btw I'm the kind of girl who's kind of awkward at conversations startingit off and carrying it on so?

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He mean so much to me!


Posted Friday December 17 2010, 9:17 am

I love my ex boyfriend so much. I know he feel the same way about me. We always breaking up then going back out. This time he went as far as having a girlfriend and even though I say I'm over him I'm not! He told her he love her but I don't think he do because they only been together for a month! we got into one of our biggest fight last week and he pushed me. I didn't know he had a girlfriend until this week. Monday was our first time talking since our fight and he told me that he love me and he apologized for hurting me:( he also told me he broke up with his girlfriend (which i didn't ask him)but he lied because on her Facebook she still have his last name and she update her status about him! I really love him and want to be with him but i don't know what to do!

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plan b after unprotected sex


Posted Friday December 17 2010, 3:42 am

I'm the type of person who likes to use condoms. I feel like it's a lot safer than plan b after unprotected sex. But I was always curious, what if someone had unprotected sex and someone pulled out of came inside, which ever one and they take plan b right afterwards and after rinsing and urinating?? Would they still be safe? I know there's always a chance of pregnancy, but how much of a chance will there be?

I see all the time that there are people that have unprotected sex and the day afterwards they take plan b and they're fine.

So, is the pull out method and plan b or the coming inside and plan b can decrease your chances of getting pregnant?

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the most confusing boy i have ever met


Posted Thursday December 16 2010, 10:49 pm

16/f.
i've been with my boyfriend for around 7 months. he's the person i lost it to and everything.
he's a gangster and not the best person for me but I still care about him and everything. he told me he loves me and all this bs a few weeks ago. I believe him but i don't feel the same way yet. Today he got mad at me for not telling him what was wrong with my best friend. He's been having family issues and has been really stressed out so i kind of understand but this is the first time he's ever been mad at me and it's really stupid. I'm not quite sure what to do about him anymore. this all happened in the morning and like an hour later he came up to me and this girl that he's always talking shit about and acts like they're be...

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I don't want to love him!


Posted Thursday December 16 2010, 9:56 pm

I don''t know what else to do with myself. Nothing works! Here's my story...

Im the hopeless romantic. Ever since I was 13 I wanted to have the relationship of dreams. I know I deserve it. I am such a happy person. All my friends always tell me I am so beautiful inside and out. I've even advocated happiness to others and have had people tell me I've changed their lives. I'm very good at giving advice and have frequented advicenators helping people. I love making people happy. I always believed that happiness is the purpose of life and nobody has reason to not be happy! Yet I have been miserable for so long...i feel like i've lost myself because of what has happened to me...hes taken all I had.

I met this 25 y...

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Im in love with my best friend help mee.


Posted Thursday December 16 2010, 3:45 pm

Im a girl abnd hes a guy obviously. But I need your guys's help. I tried making it obvious. I flirt I tell him someone likes him but he cant figure it out. I told him id tell him tomorrow. But are they any ways to tell him so we dont ruin our friendship please help asap.

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Lost virginity. Will my future husband be able to tell?


Posted Thursday December 16 2010, 11:32 am

lost virginity 2 years ago..since then no physical relation. wil my husband come to know that im nt a virgin?

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