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He sees me as a huge party girl/hoe and I'm really not!!!
Hey! I'm a sixteen year old girl, sophomore. Okay so over the summer, I went to a party and well the drinks were a little stronger than I thought they would be... And I'm pretty small sooo I got kinda wasted:\... And I normally don't drink. But anyway. I was lacking in judgement and let some guy (junior, 17) he fingered me and that was it. Anyway. That guy... I'm kind if starting to get to know him and I like him... But it's still Awkwardddd... Cause I'm worried he sees me as a huge party girl/hoe and I'm really not!!! But weve never talked about it... What do I do??
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communication is best and you say it would be awkward for you but he was part of it so it would be awkward for him too so why not be awkward together, explain to him that you don't usually do that sorta thing and remember to tell him you really like him this would ease the tension but be careful that he's not in it for sex because he fingered you some guys tend to want more i don't know him personally but that's just what i think and don't worry you're NOT a hoe girls do ten times worse than what you did
best of luck
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You can totally bring this up with him. Just say exactly what you're saying here - and maybe add something about how maybe it wasn't just the alcohol - it also might have been because of how exceptionally charming and handsome HE was. He's bound to get an ego boost out of that.
Don't worry - you didn't do anything terrible. And he should realize that. Good luck!
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This guy should be the one feeling awkward and like an ass honestly. He took advantage of someone who clearly wasn't in the position to consent to any sort of sexual act. I don't know whether or not his judgement was impaired as well. If it was then maybe this might excuse him just a bit. Bring up the subject and watch his reaction. Let him know this behavior was out of character for you because you had too much to drink. If you've been hanging out for awhile he should already have some idea of what kind of girl you really are. Hope this helps!
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