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LONELY! so,i am always lonely when it comes to dating & friends...i havent had a boyfriend since early 2009 and all of my friends are so popular and dont really have time for me...what can i do? i really need some one to help me kill my worst enemy [too much time on my hands] urrg!!!!
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Hey,
First of all, STOP feeling sorry for yourself. It's not right! Don't feel lonely, you're time will come for you to be truly happy. Everything takes time and patience. Look at the positive side and enjoy the good things in your life! Like the fact that all relationships come with baggage, tears and arguments! Having too many friends leads to gossip,rumours and fall outs! Be happy that you don't have to deal with that sort of stuff and take advantage of it. Everything happens when it's meant to happen. Keep yourself busy,try things you'd never think of trying! Acting,Singing,Dance! Unleash the talent in you. Everything has it's bright sides, so enjoy the awesome life you have! Good luck and don't fret! ]
You don't say much about your life situation here - like how old you are, whether you're in school, if you have a job, etc. However, you speak of your friends being "popular," so I'm going to guess you're in high school? (and if you're in college, same answer): If that's the case, you should get involved! In clubs, social events, school government, band, sports, church groups... the list goes on and on, really! You can even look outside of school and church - if you live in a town of any size, there are tons of clubs and social groups that advertise in the local papers. Many of them would be open to younger members. And you'll find boys/men to date as well.
Godd luck & have fun! ]
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