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Lost virginity. Will my future husband be able to tell?
lost virginity 2 years ago..since then no physical relation. wil my husband come to know that im nt a virgin?
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yes. He'll know cause you'll tell him...because you love him and youll want to be completely honest with him...and he'll want to know because its a part of the story that has made you...and it will make no difference to him because he'll love you.. intensely...
and if its any different than that...if he holds it against you or counts you as less...than he's not YOUR future husband...He's someones..but not yours;)
Best to you:)
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I agree with what everyone's said here, but I just wanted to add one thing: besides the fact that you shouldn't lie, the other important thing is that HE SHOULDN'T CARE. If he *requires* his fiance (I assume you're not married yet?) to be a virgin, his views on women's independence are kind of medieval, and that may not bode well for your future happiness as a couple.
Best of luck!
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No, Impossible
If he ask, Tell him the truth. Why is such a big deal anyways? Lying to your husband is certainly not going to make you gain his trust and it's one hell of a habit to make in a marriage. Be honest
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Will he care?
If so, if you have sex with him without telling him when the subject does eventually come up in conversation the deer-in-the-headlights look on your face will tell him all he needs to know, and it'll probably be a way bigger deal than it would be now.
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No, he won't know but you really should tell him.
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No, your husband won't be able to tell. Not all women bleed when they lose their virginity.
However, you really should be honest with him. To lie about such a big thing is really getting off on the wrong foot in your relationship. You'll be spending the rest of your life with him. He needs to be able to trust you, and the best way for that to happen is for you to be honest with him.
If you regret it, go ahead and tell him that. Tell him you wish your first was him... just don't lie.
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