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my best friend hates me
k so one of my best friends(b) has hated me for 148 days now and today i managed to get one of my other friends to ask her this;
do you hate gabby cos gabby thinks you hate her and she asked me to alk to you.
and b said
i dont hate her im just really angery with her cos she lied to me
and i dont know what to do now cos yes i did lie to her but i really had to. theres is no way i could admitt to anyone that i acually did it. so what should i do to stop her hating me?
and also, this sounds really childish but i got her a christmas presant and she got evryone else a chrismas prezzie but she didnt get me one and i dont know what to tell my mum.
thanks
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Christ.
If you apologize for your actions, mean it, and do better in the future your friends will recognize you as a decent person who can fuck up and will try to make amends.
If you don't and lie more about it your friends will eventually see you lie once and question everything else you've ever told them which they also questioned at the time. You will eventually drive a wedge you can't remove between you and your friends.
Grow up a little. Admit when you were wrong. Explain yourself while acknowledging that it doesn't make lying something you want to do to your friends. Make up with your best friend, stop just waiting for her to not hate you. Every day you make her wait for an apology is a day closer to her being over it and over you enough that she doesn't even care to forgive you.
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