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stop being the slut
i have been unintentionally sluttying it out this past month.
i get with a lot of boys who are all close friends and im usually drunk but im so sick of being treated like worthless ass.
i know i sound stupid but to them i prob seem as though i have zero reespect for myself and enough is enough!
how to i change my reputation?
how do i stop being percieved as the slut and start being taken seriously?
i know the first step is too stop drinking and stop gettign with byos obviously...
thanks agian
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Well you are doing good so far. You're actually really wanting to change. The advice below me is completely correct. Don't go around telling people you're going to change because people won't take you seriously anyway. Just show them by the way you're acting. So yeah, pretty much don't get drink and getting with a lot of guys. Set standards for yourself. Eventually you're gonna want someone who loves you for you and not your body right? No guy is gonna want a serious relationship with a girl who has been with so many guys. So you change it now before it's too late. Just set these standards for yourself and show them you're not gonna be treated like that, that you're done with it all.
So even if they say anything to you about it, ignore it. You are worth so much more than any of it.
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Hey,
Firstly let me say, I'm very proud of you for wanting to change. The first step IS realizing the type of person you are, and if you're not happy with what you are, you change. Your doing that. So well done, must take courage. My advice to you? Is to literally TAKE yourself seriously. Show everyone your drastic change. DONT do anything with any guy, for a very long time. Control yourself and resist. Make sure you never come across as EASY, be extremely hard to get and have BOUNDRIES. Dont tell people "Im changing now. I've changed"..because who doesn't say that? Just keep yourself to yourself and dont tell noone about your changing process. They'll notice themselves. Also, Good luck and stay motivated to change your ways!Have boundries.
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