Question Posted Thursday December 16 2010, 3:45 pm
Im a girl abnd hes a guy obviously. But I need your guys's help. I tried making it obvious. I flirt I tell him someone likes him but he cant figure it out. I told him id tell him tomorrow. But are they any ways to tell him so we dont ruin our friendship please help asap.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? marinemom24 answered Friday December 17 2010, 8:44 am: The days of the girl waiting for the guy to make the first move are thankfully over. You're gonna just have to bite the bullet here and let this guy know how you feel or it's gonna eat at you. While it's scary to put yourself out there and take a chance on being rejected, guys have been doing this very thing forever. You say you don't want to ruin your friendship, but it seems like your friendship is being strained because of the way you've been suppressing your romantic feelings anyway. Actually, unless this guy is a total ditz, I'd be willing to bet he already has some idea about your feelings by now anyway and could be waiting for you let him know. Good luck! [ marinemom24's advice column | Ask marinemom24 A Question ]
WittyUsernameHere answered Friday December 17 2010, 1:31 am: Love Lesson 1: When you're falling for someone, you can't be their friend. If you try to keep quiet forever it'll kill your friendship on your side, or it'll be alot messier when you finally explode on him.
Tell him you like him as more than a friend, kiss his cheek, and run for your life if you have to. I knew a girl who did just that (and handed him a note that said "call me if you feel the same way") and got what she wanted. If he likes you, you're golden. If you're not it's out in the open and you can figure out if the friendship will work. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
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