Question Posted Thursday December 16 2010, 7:01 pm
so there's this guy and i really like him....but he dosent date because he said he wants his opptions open...?? but then he gave me a hug and wispered to me to meet tommorow after school.... he was talking bout giving me a good bye kiss since we have two weeks off....but since he dosent date do u think it's because he does this to alot of girls? and he said that yesturday to but ditched out last minute today....im confused
dearcandore answered Friday December 17 2010, 4:11 pm: Doesn't sound confusing to me at all. He wants to date lots of different girls. He wants to put you in the "lots of different girls" category. Seems pretty clear to me, he was pretty up front. [ dearcandore's advice column | Ask dearcandore A Question ]
marinemom24 answered Friday December 17 2010, 8:49 am: Okay, so you're going to have to ask yourself if you'll be okay dating someone who has already told you he wants to keep his options open. This of course means that even if he did agree to date you there's no guarantee he won't drop you the minute he meets someone he perceives as "better". I personally wouldn't want that. And, you ask if it's possible he does this to alot of girls. My answer would be most likely yes. Guys can be teases too and it sounds like this guy might be leading you on. He could be playing with your feelings because he's probably realized you like him. My suggestion would be to move on. Hope this helps! [ marinemom24's advice column | Ask marinemom24 A Question ]
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