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why is my ex so annoyed
My ex boyfriend broke up with me, and immediately said he regretted it however he hasn't done anything about it
I chose not to stay friends n cut him out completely n he's so annoyed about it. He said when you see me you ignore me you don't even say hi. Why is he bothered? And he keeps trying to get me to stay friends with him n I don't know why
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Unless he cheated on you with your sister, broke up with you on your birthday or kicked your dog, there's no reason why you can't say hi to him and be civil. You dated, for goodness' sake. You were extremely close friends for a while. Now that you're broken up, you're going to each pretend like the other doesn't exist? That's kind of silly. He just wants to keep the friend aspect of the relationship without the romantic aspect. I've got the same dynamic with my first ex. He's a really sweet guy, but we just weren't cut out for each other in the long run. So now we're really good friends.
As for why he hasn't done anything about regretting breaking up with you, could it be because you're giving him the cold shoulder? I know that I'm not exactly moved to roses and candlelight dinners when someone won't give me the time of day or see my side of things reasonably. Be nice to him and maybe he will try something.
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He's trying to control you by playing games. Don't go along with it. It's almost always a bad idea to try to remain friends with an ex love. What you are doing is best for you, not him, and that's the way it should be. It sounds like you're moving on and that's healthy. Stick to your guns and move forward. Hope this helps!
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Hi ,Well good of you of moving on but i belive the reson why he wants to keep you as a friend is that maybe he thinks that if him as a boy friend wasnt all for you ..then he try to be your friend to treat you better for you to think oo why did i leave him or some thing like that or maybe say he has changed for you to give him another chance ..maybe those are but i belive that you can be his friend its really good to ge friends with an ex but have limits ..
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