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What would you do if your partner left your two children and you?
me and my girl friend just broke up after 7yrs we have 2 kids togther and have been seporated for 6 months but i still love her and tell her so. just the other day she told me she was still so in love with me and dont no why she says shes tryed everything to not be in love with me but she cant what would u say to that u think its just head games she had tears and everything hard to no she lies alot
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The only way to know if she is truly lying is if you look inside your heart. Of course you don't want a partner where you can't tell if they are lying or not, that is not good. But just look into your heart. No one can tell you what to say or do. Only you can. Did you guys have 7 wonderful years together? or was it all just full of lies and fighting? If you were truly happy and if she was truly happy then maybe it was love. But only you can know for sure. So just take some time. Honestly, in my opinion, you don't want
someone who left you with your two children.
Good luck!
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I can't possibly know much about your relationship from what you've said here, but I do know it's not a very promising sign that she "lies a lot," or at least that you think she does. Maybe the two of you aren't made for each other after all. But what REALLY matters are those kids! You need to work out a stable situation for your kids, where you provide support, visit regularly, and make some decisions about how you're going to structure your life with your ex. Those kids do NOT need uncertainty in their lives about whether Dad is coming back, screaming, crying fights between Mom and Dad, etc.
The two of you owe it to them to not go back and forth on this too long; make a decision, at the very least, that you won't fight in front of the kids, and that you'll stick to your visitation and child support arrangements. If you want to try to work things out, maybe you can schedule some time with a counselor once a week, or once a month if weekly is too expensive.
Good luck!
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