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Don't know if she is telling the truth


Posted Wednesday December 22 2010, 7:08 am

Okay i love my girlfriend so so much but i don't know if i can believe her but i know i love her and i believe she loves me but like i really want to know if she is a virgin or not cause when we first met she told me she wasn't a virgin and she is bisexual and then she told show she had sex and told me how many guys and u know i had a little problems with that cause i usually dated girls that are virgins cause i am one myself and i told her that so she knew i didnt like girls that much wasn't a virgin but i will try to work with it but then 5 months past and she was keep messing up so we broke up and i started going out with another girl and out of no where she texts me and says FYI im still a virgin and i figured she said it cause she knew...

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So overwhelemed


Posted Wednesday December 22 2010, 1:43 am

This will be long....

So first off ive never even kissed a guy and i'm in sophmore year...some of you will think oh that's not bad but it really take a tole on you when all your friends have and all they talk about is guys and their boyfriends =(, I have the smallest boobs ( they won't be getting any bigger because of my genes) my mom was small too. ANyway those things make me very self concious.But anyway i reallly need your help trying to undetstand this guy.
So me and this guy started talking and well everything seemed to be good but i don't know if this is normal things guys do. They text you one day saying" lets hang out" and the next day they don't text you for days making you sit there and wonder if y...

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Keeps cheating with no remorse


Posted Tuesday December 21 2010, 8:53 pm

So i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, i'm only 17 and he's pretty much my first real long term relationship. The only thing is when we first got together he wasn't very attentive and well like most teenage boys clueless about anything. He had a friend that was very romantic and came after me and i had never had that type of attention before and i fell for him. So i cheated on my boyfriend, who i then broke up with so i could convince myself that the cheating meant something, but my boyfriend then pulled his shit together and wouldn't let me just leave and when i tried to break it off with the other guy he threatened to tell my boyfriend everything if i didn't sleep with him, so i did and he virtually left me alone to be with m...

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This Guy Still Talks To His Ex


Posted Tuesday December 21 2010, 5:24 pm

He says there just friends but she comes up too me and tells me that they still have sex everyday. i really want to believe him but at the same time i care about getting hurt.

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am i good kisser


Posted Tuesday December 21 2010, 5:16 pm

what are signs that your a bad kisser. My friend with benefits he like doesnt pull away or anything like that and like he bite my lips alot so how do i know.

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So confused


Posted Tuesday December 21 2010, 5:14 pm

I am a 17 year old girl and a senior in high school. I've always been interested in guys and I don't think I'm a lesbian, but recently I started developing a sort of "crush" on a girl in one of my classes, named Maria. She's very quiet and pretty, and every time I look at her she smiles.. so I smile back. And every day we just smile at each other but I get embarrassed and look away because I really like her, and all I can think about is how badly I want to kiss her. I go to a very big school so I'm not worried about a bunch of people knowing, but within my group of friends it wouldn't be accepted. My friends are wonderful and they would still be my friend, but it's not something I want to tell people. I don't know how to tell Mari...

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Am I A Bad Kisser


Posted Tuesday December 21 2010, 1:28 pm

So me and this guy kissed like two days ago he didnt have a problem with it. But he has not re4plied to any of my calls or text for the past couple of days. he was my first kiss and like i promised him he would be my first french kiss too. but did he not reply or call back because i am a bad kisser. i am 14 and i am a female.

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how does he see me ?


Posted Tuesday December 21 2010, 11:43 am

well i have this friend and we always argue but we always fix it by the end of the day all are friends say we should just get together i tell him to stay away but he wont he always just replys i love You and well you see he got suspended from school because he fought and some told him i was talking bad about him so he ignored me and he would ask all the people around me if i was talking bad around me and that got me mad because i never talked bad about him so to days passed and i got sick of people asking y was i talking bad so i called him and yelled at him to stop and he said sorry because he was miss informed so he texted me the rest of the day and some of the next day and then at like 2 in the morning and again at 9 whay confused me was...

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Why is he doing that?


Posted Tuesday December 21 2010, 4:41 am

My ex of 6 months broke up with me. It was a hasty decision and he was showing regret straight away. Without going into too much detail, I wanted to get back together but he said he was unsure. I decided not to stay in contact and he was p*ssed about that.. he still kept contacting me. Last month he told me he still loved me, missed me and wanted nothing more than me back but he didn't know what to do.

I felt like he was always after a reaction from me. Like he sent me a text out of the blue saying "What you up to" I replied and said What? and he said "Sorry that was my gf who sent that" I didn't reply to it, I just left it and a few hours later he said his friend sent that text and he didn't have a gf..wh...

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I care about him too much to let him go but i'm too mad to go after him..


Posted Tuesday December 21 2010, 12:38 am

i used to talk to a guy. he's 17. Lets call him A. we've been talking for about 8 months (i know. way too long to be "talking") about 2 months ago were hanging out and one thing led to another, i lost my virginity to him. we we're really good; it seemed to have brought us closer. about a month ago he told me he loved me but i didn't say it back. he understood why i didn't say it. about a week ago I was talking to one of our mutual friends and she said that A has been telling her he's "done" with me for a while. A and i had plans that day too which i ended up canceling. he said he didn't care anymore. the next few days another one of our mutual friends (he's closer to me) was with me a lot at school. he's also 17. i'll ca...

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Possibility?


Posted Monday December 20 2010, 8:44 pm

So, long story short: I went back to my school after graduating because I wanted to pick up a couple extra classes. Theres this new young teacher there and when I first saw him there was a rush through my heart. He is soo good looking (hot!), friendly, and charming. He came from Thailand, so he has this really cute accent too. He's in his early thirties and Im 19. I don't know if I could ever date him but I wish I could get to know him even more. After talking to him a few times I told him I had already graduated. He seemed to spark up a bit after I mentioned that. There was also a school dance and he told me he wasn't much of a dancer anymore, but later we had fun dancing beside eachother for part of the night. I said: so much for 'not a d...

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I fell for my friend


Posted Monday December 20 2010, 8:20 pm

We have been rather close friends for a long time. Always fun and silly and perhaps flirtatious, but always just friends. I rarely get to talk to him this year because we dont have classes together, he doesnt have a cell phone, nd his parents are fairly strict. But I like him now and how do I tell him indiscretly how i feel for him now? And if i asked him to hang, since we are friends, would that be to desperate? And i dont want to lose him as a friend help me please!

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Would you have taken him back?


Posted Monday December 20 2010, 3:48 pm

So lets say your guy leaves you and gets with someone else. He didn't even bother telling you he left you FOR someone else, he just said that things aren't working out and I don't think we should see each other. Now, here's the catch. You think the whole time he left you because he actually liked the other girl, but in reality he never liked her like that. They were just friends with benefits. You've already taken him back but this was before you knew of the friends with benefits relationship. Now you're pissed and you don't know how to bring it up with him but you want answers and in the past, he's told you that his past is his business and only if he chooses to tell you, then he will. What would you do?

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I want him to go out with me again!


Posted Monday December 20 2010, 3:14 pm

So ok this is kinda long but please read it

So a week or 2 ago i was going out with this really hot sweet boy but he is very peverted (it kinda turns me on though) So yeah he broke up with me for like no reason and then went out with my friend lets call her brea so i was like depressed a little,but then they broke up and i was like "yes".on friday we were hanging out and i had my legs on his lap and we were talking and having a good time.Ans he leans over and says "i like you still" and kisses my cheek then runs out of the room to leave for our 2 week break.This was also the day a boy i used to like said he likrd me. so i told my friend lets call her jane.She started to tear up and said "well do you l...

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Should I tell my husband I cheated on him before he comes back from Iraq?


Posted Monday December 20 2010, 3:10 pm

names kayla, well long story short i have been with my husband for 8 years and hes deployed right now. he will be home in 2 months though. my mama who was a best friend to me passed away this year on mothers day. well i have never been on my own i have always had my husband or a family members living with me. with that said i have recently cheated on my husband for the first time ever.i really dont have the answers to why i did what i did but i feel ugly for doing so. i share everything with this man but i dont know if i should wait to tell him when he comes home from iraq or should i tell him now?

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christmas gift for the bf?


Posted Monday December 20 2010, 2:54 am

19/f
so i haven't been dating my boyfriend so all that long, it's been a little less than 4 months, but we've been friends for a couple of years now (if that matters?)
so the holidays are coming up, and i have no idea what to get him for christmas. the thing is, apart from not having a clue what would be a good gift, i'm kind of on a tight budget... i kinduh don't work (i know, i know). i'm thinking i have about $20 to spend on him? it's about how much i have left after getting my parents' gifts out of the way.
but back to my boyfriend. what's inexpensive and something a guy would like? well the second part of that would be fairly simple if he were in the typical guy category. clothes? not something he'd like, trust me...

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Me or sex?


Posted Monday December 20 2010, 12:10 am

Ok, so I like this guy, I'll refer to him as Bob. I'm 17 and he's about to be 22, but the age isn't the problem because I turn 18 in two weeks and we agreed that our relationship wouldn't go past friends until then. So that is not the problem. What I wanna know is how can I tell if he's in it for me or because he wants to get laid. Is there any warning signs? If so, please let me know, because I really like Bob, and I'd rather not be fooled because of that. Please and thank-you!

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Wants to be loved


Posted Sunday December 19 2010, 11:37 pm

i dont know why but for some reason i feel as if i need a man to love me. Even though i know the love of god should be enough i just feel so alone. its like everybody i know found someone who loves them unconditionally but when it comes to me i always end up with the ones who can care less for me. How do i get over feeling unwanted. Or what can i do to be happy without having to be in a relationship. oh yea im a 17f

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Is it wrong for me, 15 year old, to date my boyfriend whose 18?


Posted Sunday December 19 2010, 5:37 pm

October 16th 2010 My wonderful boyfriend and I started dating. Ever since, I have been the happiest. He has made me happy everyday and I am so thankful to have met someone who finally picked me up from being so down. When I'm with him, the world stops. I forget everything and I'm just so happy. I always get this feeling in the back of my chest that burns in a good way, when I'm with him or just think about him. I just want the wrest of my life to be this way. I want to feel this way forever.. We were really good friends before we even started dating. Our relationship has strengthened immensely, I can't picture my life without him. We truly do believe God made us for each other. I really do love him, and I know I'm young. I will be...

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ejaculation


Posted Sunday December 19 2010, 3:17 pm

my boyfriend has nvr gotten a handjob. and i just gave one last week but it didnt work. i know guys are better doing it to themselves but shouldnt it work anyway? ive done it before for my ex, and it worked and he liked it. idk what the problm is. do you think its me? am i not good enough? what else could it be... thnks

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