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Don't know if she is telling the truth
Okay i love my girlfriend so so much but i don't know if i can believe her but i know i love her and i believe she loves me but like i really want to know if she is a virgin or not cause when we first met she told me she wasn't a virgin and she is bisexual and then she told show she had sex and told me how many guys and u know i had a little problems with that cause i usually dated girls that are virgins cause i am one myself and i told her that so she knew i didnt like girls that much wasn't a virgin but i will try to work with it but then 5 months past and she was keep messing up so we broke up and i started going out with another girl and out of no where she texts me and says FYI im still a virgin and i figured she said it cause she knew i liked girls that were and she knew i was going out with a girl that was and she wanted me back so then me and that girl broke up cause we wasn't working out so me and vanessa got back together cause i did really miss her but now to this day i still dont know if she is a virgin like i asked her tons of times but she keeps saying she is a virgin but i dont believe her but i love her so much i just need to know if she is a virgin but i dont know if i should believe her cuz she lied to me before Please help somebody this thought goes thru my head everyday :(
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Honestly what does it matter. Why is it so important for you to be with a virgin just because you are. Her being with someone else shouldn't bother you because that her past. My husband has a child with a past relationship as well as I do and im fine with it. I dont know how old you are but I am just 19 and I think its sad she has to lie to you just to get you to like her and it probably hurts her as well. Im sure shes not a virgin if the first think she told you was that she was a virgin.
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Look, whether she's a virgin or not isn't important. It just isn't. Her LYING about it - that IS important. And you're right not to want to date a girl who lies to you.
But you're partly to blame here. She obviously really likes you - so much that she's lying about (not) having had sex before. It's your pressure - your requirement of virginity in the girls you date - that's making her want to lie. You need to cut that out. The older you get, the less likely you are to find virgins to date. Sooner or later, you're going to have to relax about this, and I think you should do it now.
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She's flat out lying to you. I'm sorry, but she is. If she changes her story after she finds out specific information, it's a lie. I hate to be blunt about it, but she is.
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